Would be nice to meet someone for ongoing hopefully regular fun

NO WHINING MEANS: If you don't like a cock shot don't click. I covered-up so you don't have to look. Though told I have a handsome cock, Its not what defines me..

I don't post a face pic for obvious reasons.

Tired of the whiny nagging from those who are on this site and offended by nude profile pics! This is NOT Match.com. And... please dont ask, What are you going to do to me or have some idea that its all about you. If your sub, you understand, Ill do what ever I want and you'll do as your told.

If you just read 50 Shades of Gray" please no! Don't contact me to try a spanking, you wont like it... nor to be tied spread eagle and fondled .... you wont like it. Its stings, its tight and its I don't use a feather duster.

It will happen when you are ready, he will be the man of your dreams and you'll know it. become Empowered! and when you said you'd even accept a switch, be careful. that's a tough mix. Almost impossible to respect a man a s Dom in your life once he gives up control, and i get it' your so willing to please the right man, you know you need a D/S relationship or wont be satisfied, trust me it may be a thrill but never the man that can handle a girl like you.
I'm sure because of your intellect and clear goals, your going to be a challenge to keep in line. You will not be easily lead, controlled and dominated! the only thing that will keep you with the right man, is the man who will empower you and love you, wants protect you and see that you have all the things you need, takes time to listen and understands your hearts desires. Has the wisdom to know when to give them to you, and not to give you too much. Its takes a very wise  spiritual person to have the right answers, and who loves you enough even to pray he does it right. Almost like a loving parent doing whats best for you.

Oh and confident with giving discipline, persistent and consistent. I know nothing works like spanking discipline, does not need to be sexual, but often leads to foreplay as it relieves tension when things are getting out of hand. and can be used as foreplay but should not always. It re-sets your attitude, keeping your primal understanding and place as his submissive. at least 2 weekly scheduled need to be routine. Without fail, lets say, Friday nights at 8 pm you would expect and without question, be diligent and prepare for it, just like brushing your teeth. My routine goes like this. we talk after dinner and its expected to come clean, for me too confront directly the things shes been doing that aren't up to par tasks not done as agreed, laundry ... whatever telling you what is unacceptable and deal with ot before it becomes taken for granted. I am strict, takes caring and work to keep on top, holding one accountable and no excuses. It doesn't need to be questioned or feel like its non-negotiable going forward. I expect an apology not an excuse, no need to be humiliating clear communication, accountability. I may ask for an explanation, or apology accepted. may warn you, not to let it happen next time.
discussing the week, and going forward needs cumming up. Telling if you have appointments or need help with some things, money issues, want a dress and shoes... xcan be just fun.
So after usually i chill and watch the news for 20 mins and she puts on her garter belt and stockings or footie pjs open bottom. If I say "Naked" or better hurry she knows shes gonna get it, im not happy. We have a straight back chair, wooden and strong i like. When I get there she is standing next to the chair in the office corner. she has brought the paddle(its a brush i like, wooden) and i sit take the brush form her and lays over my lap. I give her a good hard spanking. Usually 5-10 times with the paddle, and often then bare handed.

Well here got lost and said too much. Hope you get something from this and my main message to you is, your more advanced than most, don't self yourself short. and if  need another person to feel complete or happy, you need to pray and work on yourself, and if its not working, stop. Dont date for 3 or 6 month no matter what happens, promise yourself that you will learn more, exercise, study and pray. Oh yeah, Doms and subs can go to church, need it more than most sometimes. Remember God made us this way. Good friend i mine always say "Well, church is for sinners"

. "Do you see what I see" Sort of, ... I read people like a wolf or ape, read expressions, spacial angles and body language, posture and tone "we all do", BUT no. Really smart Ape! and your familiar :)"emoticon, you recognized happy" good! I see ;?'

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but that's my shy side. I'm a panic at parties and with groups leading riots of laughter. 'Nough said.. best trait... uplifting people, listening, learning ones hearts desires, supporting freedom of choice. Take in hand lead, protecting loved ones. Show by example self respect and respect for others. Discipline and teach good behavior. Intimate giving giving yourself, in depth, willingly offering, trusting.

Intimacy- homonym "See into Me" "In-to-Me-See" Deeply

"Never fight to win!, less you like to sleep with a loser"