Step One to pleasing your Master

SHUT UP.

Yes. Stop talking. Hush your mouth. Stop speaking. That is the very first step in pleasing your Master.

Step Two.

LISTEN TO WHAT HE SAYS.

Listening is different from hearing. Listen to what he says. Get in there. Hear the words and retain them. Really listen. And if you want to say something while he’s talking? Refer back to STEP ONE.

Step Three

The Last and I think most important step in pleasing your Master is this simple phrase. This action should come directly after LISTENING.

DO WHAT HE SAID.

That’s it. Shut up. Listen. Do what he says. Don’t debate it. Don’t think about it. For Fucks Sake, don’t blog about it. Don’t ask the girls on the internet chat channel and forum what you should be feeling about what he told you to do. Don’t post it on a group. Don’t consult your horoscope, his horoscope, or the tarot. Just DO what HE says you should Do. Preferably, you should try to do what he says when he says you should do it.

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If it’s an easy thing, don’t clarify it. If it’s a hard thing but you know him well enough to know what he meant, don’t clarify it. Don’t stall. Don’t dawdle. Don’t handle your own shit first.

If you’re from up North Don’t “prepare” to do it. If you’re from Down South, don’t be “just fixin’” to do it. Just DO what the Fuck he said for you to do. If you forget easily, WRITE IT DOWN. If you aren’t paying attention when he says it, Ask him to repeat it. Yes, he’ll know you weren’t listening but it’s better to ask him to repeat it and fail once at step two than to fail EVER at step three.

Pleasing an owner is the easiest part of slavery. It’s three steps. Deal with the inner workings and spirituality and the other Oprah and Eckhart Tolle parts of slavery on your own time. I know we’re supposed to care about the spiritual shit. I got the memo, but to be honest, I’ve never felt the need to ponder about the spiritual workings and inner epiphanies of my slavery while sucking Master’s cock. That’s what my free time is for. When he’s asleep I can do ALL of that. And I do. I have journals for days on the spiritual side of my service. I have to remember though, that’s my thing. That’s not his thing.

When he’s awake and when he’s around, it’s Step One. Step Two, Step Three.

And guess what? That Man of mine is PLEASED. He’ll even tell perfect STRANGERS how pleased he is! He tells me constantly how pleased he is. “Kitten, You please me so much.” I hear it like 5 times a day and I EARN IT. All I have to do is Shut up, Listen, and do what he says.

Is it always easy to just shut up, listen, and do what he says? NO! I didn’t say that it was easy to do what he says. I said it’s easy to please him. That’s a totally different statement, friend. As long as I’m not also trying to please myself, it’s very easy to please him. I think that’s the unspoken part of a lot of those questions about being found pleasing.

“How can I always please my owner without giving away part of myself?” You can’t.
“How can I please him while still doing exactly what I want to do?”

Well, you can’t unless exactly what you wanted to do was please him, but I’ll admit, that’s getting into “In order to bend the spoon first realize that there is no spoon” territory for me. I can’t help you with that heavy shit.

“What if my owner is wrong??”

Let’s not even go there right now.

I know that it can be hard for a lot of folks because sometimes our dominants aren’t the easiest people in the world to deal with. (a certain boi has my deepest sympathies in this department) *grins* But after a while, it becomes a habit and you don’t even think about it anymore. Then you get into a wonderland and/or mine field called “anticipatory service” where you have a 50/50 chance of being pleasing and STILL succeed at pleasing them 98% of the time. (However, that 2% of the time when you fuck it up, it’s HUGE!!!!”)

Let’s handle the three step process first.