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| First and for most I am not on Collerspace to play keyboard warrior. I am real and I am looking for the same. If you are looking for someone to just message on here keep going, that’s not me I live the active life style and expect the same in anyone I am talking with. I also am a face to face type of Dominant. I enjoy that more than the typing and messaging, it has more meaning and it means that you are willing to take that chance to grow at that level, that's, a true submissive who wants to be trained live and in person.
I want to first talk about my experience as a Dominant. I have been in many different types of relationship from vanilla to D/s relationships.
I will talk about my vanilla relationships first. Thought in many ways most of the women I have dated in a vanilla way have always ended bad do to the fact that they did not understand that I am a Dominant. They would always misunderstand the way I'm wired.
Now for my D/s relationships. I have had good amount of experience with that, do to my age and do to being open to new experience and many types of different submissive women. I have had several experiences with different aged submissive. I know how to understand a younger submissive and that she is still learning and that she is still trying to define who and what she is as a submissive and that she still does not understand that she needs guidance in both understanding and respecting what a Dominant is and what his role is towards a submissive woman. That does not mean just sexually but also in a mental aspect.
Now for being in a D/s with an older submissive. I know how to understand the true dynamic of an older submissive women and that she never truly stops learning as a submissive and that she need to have those new experiences in her life to help her growth sexually and mentally. One of the things that I have known most is that her need to be mentally challenged on a daily basis.
Different aged subs require different training because of experience levels and a host of other factors. Actually if you had two 22 year’s old’s, they are as different as night and day. You must develop a PLAN for each and every sub.
What I'm looking for in a submissive is, one who is willing to explore the true experience of BDSM. I have the ability to take you down that road with proper training.
Sir_CW
" The first step in knowing you is to accept who you are and to accept your thoughts and your feelings then you learn who you are. When you understand who you are you truly understand others and how they work and think. By understanding and accepting who you are you learn to see things in other's that they may not yet see in them self's."
Those are some of the words I live by and have helped me become who I am today. I just hope that my words can on day help others on that same road to discover them self's.
Writing by Sir_CW
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| Age: 36 |
| Appleton,
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