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SirCEROS

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Thank you for visiting my domain within the fascinating world of Collarme. I am an experienced dominant man in search of women who are looking to explore their submissive side. D/s, Domestic Discipline (DD), BDSM, age-play and Daddy/daughter relationships are my areas of interest and experience.

Whether you are new to this lifestyle, or are an experienced sub or slave, I invite you to contact me. I welcome all for communication and friendship, and I’m always open to new play partners, but I am especially interested in women for committed D/s, DD and Master/slave relationships. If you know who you are and what you need, that will get you extra points.

I have membership in many of the alternative lifestyle organizations in the Tampa Bay area and I’m very active in Florida Moonshine, so if you want references, I can give you a list. I’m also known due to my work as a professional photographer. In addition to working with "vanilla" clientele, I also shoot fetish and fine art nudes.

I am looking for a submissive woman who is in need of a firm hand and a loving heart. I can help you learn more about yourself and explore your submissive side in a safe environment. I will teach you how to please me. All you need to bring is your desire to serve and willingness to learn. I will supply the control you need to feel safe, fulfilled and loved.

If you are experienced in this lifestyle, you have an understanding of what you need. You recognize that your desire to serve and please is primal and instinctive. You need a man who is a rock upon which you can secure your anchor. A true submissive experiences discipline as a form of guidance and a way to prove her love to her Dominant. To a true slave, bondage represents a profound level of commitment and freedom of spirit. She places her body in the hands of her Master and entrusts her mind and spirit to his care. This is a tremendous responsibility for the Master. Having fulfilled this role on multiple occasions, I take that responsibility very seriously. This is why all my relationships begin as D/s rather than Master/slave. As I train you, we will discover together how well we communicate and resonate. If you please me and prove to me that you are capable of a long-term commitment, then at my discretion, I will collar you and claim you as my slave.

I have learned through the years that most of you are interested in this lifestyle because of fantasies you’ve carried since you were young, or patterns that you learned early in life. Some of you are carrying wounds from childhood. You don't need to be a victim. You can turn the negatives of the past into the positives of the present.

One of my favorite kinks is spanking. I enjoy it both as foreplay and just as play all by itself. I’ve also discovered that it can be a helpful form of therapy for women who are attempting to heal wounds from their past and re-parent their inner child.

I prefer women who are my age or younger, attractive (to me) and height & weight proportionate. Bearing that in mind, who you are inside is just as important to me as how you look on the outside. I value honesty, integrity, intelligence, passion and playfulness. If you have nothing to offer inside, it won't matter how pretty you look on the outside. True beauty is a combination of the two.

I understand and honor safe-words. I also know the difference between hard and soft limits or boundaries. Hard ones will be respected, soft ones will be tested.

As your Dominant, I will train and use you as I see fit. I will use you for my pleasure, sexual and otherwise. I will test your limits and help you explore the deep recesses of your psyche. I will help you understand your past and explore your future from the grounded reality of the present. I will give you the safe space in which to explore your wildest fantasies.

Brattiness or disobedience will be dealt with using loving and consistent discipline. Drama will not be tolerated. If you want to produce an episode of Jerry Springer, find someone else to co-star, because I will ask you to leave.

Welcome to my world…

7/6/2009 8:51:22 AM
I was recently having a conversation with a friend and wanted to share a few of those thoughts with the community.

Having experienced both, I no longer have any interest in vanilla relationships because they cannot reach the level of intimacy that is possible in a D/s relationship. Those that are truly "hardwired" for this lifestyle reveal themselves to each other more profoundly than those in the vanilla world. It is a connection of soul and spirit, not just body and mind.

A slave entrusts her entire being to her Master and he in turn is charged with the responsibility of her care and well-being. He will use her for his own pleasure, sometimes sadistically, but he does so knowing that it is also meeting her needs. If it didn't, their relationship wouldn't work. He may inflict her with deliciously painful torments, but he will never do anything to cause her serious injury because he treasures her, not just as his property, but also as another priceless human being who has willfully chosen to give herself to him and submit to his will. It's a beautiful symbiosis.

6/21/2009 3:01:57 PM
One of the things I've learned in this lifestyle is that for a man to be truly dominant, he must first be in control of himself and his emotions. If a Dom cannot control himself, how can he expect to safely and effectively exercise control over someone else? I believe this one critical element is an important key to avoiding drama, fractured relationships and the abuse that is sometimes perpetrated under the guise of BDSM. 
adram311
 
 Age: 19
 London, United Kingdom