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	I am interested in both the physical and psychological elements of D/s if you know the difference between weakness and submission; if you aren't afraid to push your limits and test your fears, and if you listen well. I am looking for a sub that thinks that BDSM is a constant learning process and who is willing to participate in that learning. I have certain standards that I follow. Trust and Respect - They are earned not given. And there must be honesty and open communication. Your prior BDSM experience is not as important as the level of submissiveness you develop towards me in our relationship. This slave MUST be Drug and Disease Free. I am an attractive, witty, well read and fit Dominant. Demanding and controlling. I do have a sense of humor that runs along the sadistic side of life. I have had training at the art (and it is an art) of being a Master. I believe in effective communication between a Dom/Master and His sub/slave. I don't believe in being foolish in My responsibilities. I expect obedience, yet I am secure enough to realize that there may be some aspects of My demands which require discussion. However, in the end, My will is law. I am fair but will not accept insolent behavior. Please be someone who I can talk with and be friends with outside the scene too. That means you being clever, literate, well-mannered, opinionated and have a sense of humor I am a "sadist" but I use discipline as training or teaching tool to help in your becoming a better submissive to Me and to better the relationship. As a Dom, I believe causing physical pain to a submissive in which He cares for and has promised to protect as a punishment, to be painful mentally and emotionally for a Dom and the disappointment the submissive has/had caused to be more of the punishment for the submissive.... or at least it should be I am looking for some one who wants to serve a loyal master that will punish and reward when needed. If you think you are a candidate write me and tell me why I should take you under my wings.

10/5/2008 1:03:48 PM

Yeah yeah yeah. I moved. Enjoying the work on a tree farm with some blueberry bushes on that aint been tended to in such a long time. But its something to do. Any of yall truely interested?

7/27/2007 7:11:40 PM

As I sit and read profiles I have to wonder. How many of you actually read the profile of someone who has messaged you?

12/8/2006 12:31:08 PM

Things with the new job are going pretty good. The munches are still on hold at this time as I am away from home for long periods of time. But things just might be on the up and up and I am looking forward to some tight times but they will be for the better in the end if things go right. Wish me luck.

9/11/2006 12:19:34 AM

Well. The time has come to take a few steps back as I have a new job. Finally released by the dr to return to full duty at the old job but they have not brought me back yet. My checks stop next week so had to do something. It is a shame they are acting this way. Good luck in everyones search and I hope that everyone finds what they are searching for. I will be checking my emails from time to time.

6/16/2006 5:48:24 AM

Just so some of you know. The Munches are held in central Kansas 2 hours west of Wichita.

6/15/2006 1:39:48 PM

I never thought that I would purposly put my self through so much pain. I had surgery done on my wrist of which the Dr. found some very odd things. I do know that if it were not for pain medication I dont know how well my sanity would be right now. Soon though the swelling should be down and the pain should be gone. I hope.

6/7/2006 6:26:01 PM

Ok. Just an update. The sub that was suppost to move to the area never did. Such is life. I have in this time found anouther who I am teaching at this time. Anouther surgery is in the future. Like come monday morning. The group is going good but still small. Still looking for others to come and join. Our Munches are held the first weekend of every month. Though July might be cancelled due to how I might be feeling. That is up in the air at the moment. Drop me a line if your interested.

10/26/2005 8:31:28 PM

Here is some good news for my journal. Things are looking up. I have reasons to smile. A sub that I have been talking to is considering moving to the area so that we can get to know each other much better. I was fired from my job for not being physically capable of doing the job even though I am under a Drs care and it is a work comp case. The lawyer is handling this and it looks really good. The letter I recieved from work will also help with the hostile work envirment lawsuit that I am passing on to a diffrent lawyer. Such a wonderful thing this is. I do love getting paid to stay home. So. Now I am not looking any longer except for those who are in the central kansas area who are looking for a group to join for munches, demos, classes, and above all else.... friends. If you are interested please drop me a note. Those who are on the west part of the state are welcome as well. If you know of any groups with in the western part of the state please let me know.

5/4/2005 11:55:10 AM

Wow. Again I do anouther rant in My journal. Though this is more then a rant. I read where more nad more people are getting Gastric Bypass Surgery. Many think this is a good way to lose weight. I have to wonder if they have TRUELY done the research as to the fatality levels from complications of this surgery. I have in the past and have found some very startling numbers. I have had a couple of people who have had the surgery say that their doctors have said that the surgery is non evasive. It is a VERY SERIOUS operations. I spoke with a hospital in my area that have been doing the operation for only a couple of years. They have done over 600 operastions and have not lost a patient yet and they say they consider them selves to be VERY lucky. The national average numbers that they gave me were get this.... 1 in 200 end in DEATH from serious complications. I dont know about you but those numbers scare the hell out of me. I am still searching for numbers to compare those numbers to like open heart surgery and will have them soon. But the last time I checked even those who have open heart surgery dont have a fatality rate like that. People think before you do something like this. Is your vanity truely worth your life?

7/22/2004 10:28:06 AM

As I sit here watching longer and longer. I notice that there are a few so called submissives that do not understand the meaning of respect. The have lost the meaning of Honor. I respect the fact that they have sought out protection under one Man. However the insults in their journals just goes to show how little they respect everyone else. They choose to top from the bottom. That is what they are doin to this person. That is not a submissive. That is a fool. Too bad they must hide behind someone else instead of taking credit for their actions and words.

6/24/2004 12:19:17 PM

As I sit here I start shaking My head the longer that I look. I am seriously wonder if some of the subs and slaves are looking for a Master or Owner or if they are looking for a sugar daddy. So many do not want to give up careers and have actually seen where a slave left her Master over her career. So many continue to amaze Me. I do hope that sometime they grow to understand just which should come first to them. It is the Owners/Masters/Doms job to take care of what is his and yet so many do not allow that to happen. I understand the want for your own money to buy a present for their one. However, many so called careers take the sub/slave out of the home and tire them out to where they can not take care of the one protecting them as they should.