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Hello, my name is Andrew and I am kinkster and spankophile. I play and live the lifestyle as much as my vanilla life allows. I am a spanker, top, daddy, and dom in that order. I enjoy attentively delivering pain and pleasure and truly believe it is about my partner and not about me. I love the community, kinksters are the best, and feel very fortunate to have many great friends, play partners, and a mentor.
I am very comfortable being me. I tend to be quiet, observant, contemplative, and nice. I view myself as average in many ways this helps me maintain a mode of improving. I dont like to talk about myself and am unaffected by others opinions or perceptions. To most folks in my life, this is me.
ApproachStyle
For me, play partners are gifts. I dont expect to have any and I am surprised and happy if and when I do have someone to play with. I will seldom initiate play and there is a good chance I will not pickup on signals or subtleties. If I am lucky enough to play, I like to start with a conversation, learn what you are looking for and ease into play. I am respectful of subspace and believe aftercare is important. If we become regular play partners or dare I say in a relationship, our play will get intense and varied. I am a facilitator, my goal is help you fulfill your desires and progress in your journey. I am truly not concerned about me it is about my partner having wonderful experiences. The intimacy of play, engaging in mutual kinks, and seeing my partner happy is what drives me.
Community
I have never been a joiner. This is because I was not into a hobby or a subject enough to warrant going all in. This is the Seinfeld Porn Guy conundrum. But for the spankokink community, I am all in. This is a lifestyle I love and embrace. The lifestyle is wonderfully diverse and inclusive. If you are a spankokinkster, I am happy to be your friend. And if you become a close friend, I want to be part of your kinkster family. This is important to me. Most of my past groups of friends were shallow relationships. And I would like it to be more meaningful. I want to care and love those in my kinkster family I want it to be meaningful.
Long Term Relationships
I am very interested in a LTR with a fellow kinkster, but dont expect it to happen. My wise Mama once told me that it will likely happen organically. I am open to that possibility.
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