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Until the Fata Morgana whispers back..
I know most women here are looking for an unattached man, so in order to prevent you wasting your time: I'm happy vanilla married to a sweet woman.
In case you want to continue reading, be warned: this is by far the longest Master profile in this community..
In general I'm always glad to help online, listen to what is bothering you or give some (personal) advise (for what it's worth..). Always feel free to message me; there should be no hurdle if you would like to approach me.
Underneath some stuff I copied & pasted from my own posts so far. Some of the 'wiser' (some might say 'less stupid') personal visions.
What a Master is all about:
1. A Master should be humble enough to realize that he should be worthy of having a slave.
2. A Master should realize that within a relation the slave is of equal importance as he is.
3. A Master should realize that it will be his responsibility to keep the M/s relation in balance.
4. A Master should realize that he will be responsible of the physical and mental well-being of his slave.
5. A Master should realize that he MUST guide, control, teach his slave.
6. A Master should realize that he must earn the respect of his slave. Being Master is hard work; it is not about messing around.
7. A Master should realize that if he can not successfully control his own life, that chances of controlling his slave's live are close to zero.
8. A Master should never abuse his slave. Never. Abusing that what is under your personal protection degrades you from 'Master' to Loser. There are no excuses; not for a Master. Never.
If you can't do, can't meet that, you're not a Master in my eyes.
Regarding the intelligence of a slave:
To me, slave's nature and personality are the cake; her intelligence is the icing on that cake. For me there can never be enough icing on the cake.. the more the better.. However, if the cake is sweet and tasty by itself I can do perfectly with little of no icing.
About relations and happiness:
Whether Master or slave, you have the right to be happy, the right to lead a rewarding, fulfilling and meaningful life, you have the right to get a matching non-egoistic non-egocentric partner that sincerely cares about your personal well being. In M/s both partners exactly have these same identical rights. Especially in M/s it is Master's responsibility that slave's rights are met, if by whatever reason slave neglects to stand-up for her own rights.
Don't let anyone take away those rights from you. Never.
About CM itself:
As a community we are here to help and support others as best as we can. Sometimes in lively discussions we might forget what it is all about: being part of a magnificent community and making a small contribution towards it.
Enjoy it, participate on it, be the community in a wise, caring and positive way ..
Something about me:
I guess I was born smart and wise, never bullied or got bullied, skipped my pubertal phase, always had a helicopter view for as long as I can remember, always got a full control of my own life, never made any stupid mistakes (ok.. hardly any..), guided & controlled other lives without realizing I was doing so; it just happened and I took it for normal. I always felt people were safe on my watch, because I feel responsible for what is happening around me. I'm a shepherd to sheep, who don't notice I softly guide them in this vanilla world. I have a lot of positive energy pushing me forward, making me successful with whatever I do and I've done a lot; I feel the earth tremble when I walk (ok.. I get a bit poetic here..) I made many decisions for many people and suddenly one day (no special trigger or whatever occurred) I realized: I'm a Master. A Master acting, thinking and behaving as a true Master in a vanilla world around me. A Master with a clear personal vision of what a Master should be and I live myself by those same personal standards. I don't feel special being a Master; it is just how I was born, what I am, the genetic stuff I'm made off I guess, so no big deal. Not even Freud himself would find the slightest trace of a submissive feeling in my body and mind.
About respect:
1. A true Master should have a high respect for women in general.
2. A true Master should have a very high respect for unowned slaves and realize that his first step always should be to EARN the respect of said slave before doing anything else. Commanding unowned slaves out of the blue immediately proves you are NOT a Master.
3. A true Master should have an extremely high respect for owned slaves.
4. If a slave (owned or unowned) approaches a Master, with questions, asks for help, whatever, then a true Master should respectful be there for that slave, without wanting anything in return.
Everything is based upon respect, if you don't see and feel that, you're not a Master. Not in my eyes.
These are not guidelines and most certainly NOT kind requests; it is a MUST for a true Master. If as a Master you behave disrespectful, whether online or rl, you are not a Master to my opinion. You are a loser, just deceiving yourself and (vulnerable) slaves in your presentation as 'Master'.
About the jealousy of a slave:
There are some background processes one needs to take into account when looking at something like jealousy within M/s:
1. Personally I have a clear and straight forward opinion regarding M/s relations: a Master is always responsible for anything that happens within or to that relation. That seems maybe an unfair burden to bear, but of all men a true Master should and must bear it. The other side of that same coin: a Master gets a lot in return, never underestimated to power of the submissive gift.
2. Jealousy is one of the strongest emotions, deeply embedded in one's personality. Telling people not to be jealous, 'training' or forcing them to get rid of it, is just fouling yourself. It can't be done that simple as Freud found out himself a long time ago. For any Master jealousy should be serious business; you don't mess around with jealousy, not while you as Master yourself are kept responsible for the M/s relation you started..
3. Making a commitment as Master is sacred; there are no excuses as Master for breaking your own commitments, not if you want to look in the mirror again.. Not if you want to look an other Master in the eye..
So back to jealousy, looking to it from the above perspective ..
If you as Master encounter a slave (rl, online or ldr), both are interested to start a long-term relation, but you get the impression that said slave is quite jealous (and it is your task as Master anyway to figure that out before going further..) then you as Master have to move carefully and watch your steps. If you want that slave, make a commitment not to involve other women, then you are bound to keep that commitment.
If you want that slave, but like to keep the option for other women open, then this has to be crystal clear from the start (your responsibility as Master that there is no misunderstanding).
As Master you DON'T start a relation, take the submissive honey first and blame her afterward for not being 'willing' to overcome her jealously feelings. Doing so would reflect bad on you as Master since you made the mess yourself, failed as Master from the start already, neglected the fact that you are responsible first and foremost, blamed the other and left it to the other to live further with that. That would be 'Master' unworthy behavior..
About the Power of a Master:
In this world, on this Earth, a Master has the power to create a heaven or a hell for his slave. It is that simple; that is the impact of the power we are talking about.
When used in a positive way a slave will blossom up, reach levels she never could have imagined to reach, a state of unparalleled happiness, an ecstasy of love and deep respectful affection towards her Master, shedding tears of happiness on Master's feet while kneeled before him (sorry.. I'm in a poetic mood again). Slaves can not get closer to a heaven on Earth then at the feet of a true positive Master.
When used in a negative way (intentionally or unintentionally due to lack of insight or whatever) the damage towards a slave can be unparalleled high as well. All is in balance: the chance of an extreme high is outbalanced by same chance of an extreme low..
That all is quite some responsibility to bear for a Master, but of all men, a Master should bear that responsibility. If you as Master take that power seriously, use it wisely, then in return you will get more than any other vanilla man could ever get.
About being a true slave:
The basics of any action of a slave should be a confirmation (towards herself & others) of the simple fact that she truly is and wants to be a slave. That background is more important then some realize. You can't say "I'm a slave", just get involved in some kinky sex and/or mess around a bit. Being a true slave comes from a deep knowledge within that you are a slave, that you are determined to behave like one and that you want the outside world (community) to recognize you as such.
Meaning: anything should be done from a humble, submissive awareness of being slave. Be polite, patient and above all respectful towards your Master and to any Master in general. A true slave has a very high willingness to please her Master; that should be reflected in anything you do and think.
There are some tricks to learn, but I don't find those tricks that meaningful. To me it is far more important that in her own words, her own presentation, her own actions, she shows to me that she truly is a slave in body, mind and soul.
In return as Master I would give my slave (or any slave who approaches me in above described way) the respect she deserves to get as a true slave.
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The above is a collection of personal reflections, opinions or visions coming from my own earlier posts.
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The stuff underneath is put here especially for the profile itself.
What I seek here:
Hm.. I don't like this part to be honest. I know myself as hardly many people will ever know themselves, but even for me, there are places in my mind I prefer not to look, don't want to analyze. Black holes remaining untouched.
Having a vision, a crystal clear opinion, a philosophy, observing & analyzing other peoples lives or minds, that's quite easy for me. No big deal, my brains simply work that way, not a special achievement, just a remarkable talent. Using those same mental powers to analyze myself is ok as well, but in the moment I try to figure out what I want as a Master the powers stop, the system refuses to analyze that extra step. The Guru becomes speechless when asked a simple question: "what do you seek as a Master?"
There is a warning on top of this profile: "I'm happy vanilla married to a sweet woman". I don't know if it works, but as a reminder to myself it sure does work. The description "happy vanilla married" is an understatement; not many people in this world will be so fortunate to experience a feeling of true and complete happiness in marriage as we both so grateful do..
Although completely surrounded in my vanilla world I live the live of a true Master towards my own high personal standards. I guide, control and protect. A Guru for some, a concilliari or Godfather to others. A true Master.
A Master however without a slave..
Does that make me feel unhappy? As if something essential is missing? As in life-is-short-go-for-it? No. Zip. Zero. My happiness as Master comes from a deep knowledge that I make wise decisions, keep my commitments, have my balance. Mental satisfaction, a warm glow from inside, my pride as true Master. I don't need a pretty young naked slave on her knees saying: "Master, I will do anything for you", to make me feel better then I already do. (ok.. the kinky sex might be nice.. I'm a man like so many others after all..)
But still, from the black holes, once in a while a soft whisper can be heard: "You are a true Master, your slave is out there, waiting for you, she needs you.., wants you.., find her..".
In my weak moments I listen (yep.. even I have them, I do hope you will overcome that disappointment in me..). I tried having an online slave a few times, but found it not that rewarding on those occasions. Real life is out of the question for sure.
And here is where the self-analysis blocks: most probably I'm still seeking deep down for an online slave, to deeply share feelings, mental domination, somebody amazing, gorgeous, my missing spiritual M/s half, my muse, my own sweet obedient slave, that all embedded in a ldr relation with zero change of meeting rl. Maybe.. I don't know.. I doubt.. not sure what I want myself here.. (indeed.. for sure this is not my normal me)
Anyway, at the moment I stopped seeking for her and maybe she will never find me. Maybe one day I'll start actively looking again. In the end, at a mental level, it makes no difference at all because with or without her: I'm still her Master. My mind is linked on a mental level to the Fata Morgana of my ideal slave (wow.. sometimes I'm surprised myself by my own complexity and poetic line of thinking).
I'm a happy man in balance with myself. A true Master.
A Protector of slaves:
A female slave wrote me a memo stating that I gave her a snugly feeling of being warmly safe and protected. It made me think about my own above mentioned personal black holes. Looking inside I clearly see now that this indeed is one of my non-selfish motivations of why I'm here: giving female slaves that feeling of being understood, appreciated and warmly sheltered, even if they are not my slave nor linked to me in whatever other way. It just is the way I am as person, as Master: I'm a protector of slaves, not just for one, but for all.
A Concilliari to Masters:
It is not always easy being a Master.. Where can you turn to as Master in case you start to doubt yourself? Well, for what it is worth, you can always ask my (second)opinion (and I won't even tell your slave you did). I'm the lubricant, reducing the friction between the gears, preventing the system to get stuck.. (wow, that is soo deep..)
Thanks for reading. Sorry I need so many words (I know.. Gurus in general are quite boring..) In case you might have questions, just ask.
Take care,
Sir Aldric
BTW 1: If people want to copy & paste from whatever I wrote here, to be (re)used in their own profile or post, no problem whatsoever, although it would be appreciated if I was informed on beforehand and did not stumble over it myself.. ;)
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