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A gentleman is looking for his submissive princess. This is not a search for a sexting, rather I am looking forward to finding the one who craves to meet her missing dominant half. Keywords Trust, care, discipline, lust, commitment.
So,
What I am looking for?
I believe we are in this world to experience as much as possible and taste the more we can get from life. Here I am to gain more experiences starting a new male-female interaction with someone who seems to dream the same.
I am looking for a relationship that will be built up between a dominant man and a submissive girl. One shot play or a kinky chat is not what I am interested. I want to start a trust based online relationship which will turn into something important for both sides.
The relationship shall add something to our daily life routines in a kinky way and I believe you are the one who needs the same.
Why online relationship and does it really work?
The reason I am interested in online relationship is that, first of all there arent any possible partners who share my interests around me lately. I am sure there are also people who feels the same as me, living in different parts of the world. Second, I believe a BDSM relationship has its own dynamics and those dynamics could be applied even in long distance commitments. Finally, as described above, I am here to experience more and want to share my experiences with someone new whom I dont meet before.
Well, I believe it is right time to mention here that I have experienced this before. I have had such relationship online for long periods, one even turned into real life after some time. There is only one way to make such a relationship work Honesty is the key and we have to carry this key with all our hearts. Finally, it is the heart who makes the real decisions, mind only obeys. And obedience, do you know any word sexier than that?
What I understand from BDSM?
BDSM is a journey. You not only discover your sexual fantasies during that journey but also your inner self. It is a path of exploration that turns you into someone superior. When a slave and master comes together they become one body to share their secrets and through their interaction, being two different sides of the story, they discover different perspectives of life.
It is the masters obligation to lead the slave in that journey, protect her and help her development whereas the slave should give herself to masters hands in all aspects.
My understanding from the word master is also matching the word mentor for the slave.
As a result, BDSM is not only sex. Sex is only a part.
Who I am looking for?
A girl who has some basic idea about her interests to BDSM. Not important if you are experienced or new to the subject. Main issue is that you should feel the need to walk that path. You need a man to get you, lead you and be your Owner. You need someone to teach you, train you, and fulfill you.
Age is not a main issue as long as you are not underage -preferred to be over 20-. How you look is important but to me, a girl who feels herself beautiful is brilliant and it is the masters responsibility to help her shine in her existence more. You may have limits and expectations, more than may, you should have those. All will be respected and an amicable way should be found after discussion.
Who am I?
A man in his mid-thirties. Fit body, deep looking green eyes, thoughtful, clear-cut. Have a good job, and a socialized life. Into literature, psychology, philosophy... A house full of books is what I am trying to create and the more I read the more I understand human-beings.
I have always been a dominant man and had real life and online experiences with slaves. Everyone I met until today, helped me to add something to my own creation.
For BDSM issues, as I said before, I am rather on the mentor side, not being a total sadist. However, games including moderate pain, restrictions and power-play are all interested by me. Dont have any interest in illegal, extreme pain, scat games and anything that will give damage to your daily life. To highlight the fact, I am not here to destroy you. I want to develop you.
What will be the effaspects of such a relationship to your daily life?
This is something we will discuss in full details, however we will be the parts to decide the level of daily life intersection. Micromanagement can be decided but rather, I like the idea of being the light for slaves goals in life. In other words I would like to help her reach her targets by motivating or punishingrewarding methods. (Punishments are the main arms of the master if he knows how to use those in a kinky way.)
At this point, I should also mention if the slave is expected to be free from a real life relationships or can an online relationship could work even if she is attached. Well, again, this is something to be discussed in details but I believe it is possible that the slave may have her commitments in her daily life and a true BDSM relationship that we could develop -through the mentoring- shall also help her to be happier in her daily life. So it is a choice, if the slave is attached, married or willing to keep on dating in real life. The only concern in here is, again, honesty. Having choices and picking the right one is also one of our concerns in here. A true master should help her slave to take right decisions.
Well, I am interested. How should I response?
As you realized, my dear girl, I have explained in details who I am and what I am looking for, so it is fair that you should do the same. Please tell me more about you not being limited to answering those main questions below
1) Who are you? (Isnt it actually what we trying to understand... First you, then I will tell you who you are.)
2) What experiences you have? (Yes, princess, by this you will start walking the path.)
3) What are your expectations and limits? (And this is the first time you will be naked in front of me. Being naked is not always physical.)
Just make your application through personal message and feel free to ask any questions you have in your head. Speak the words, but let your emotions and senses talk, to give a real decision. That is the way that you will understand if I am the one for you.
All applications shall be answered. I will only accept one candidates application to start walking the path together.
Regards.
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