To all the blank profiles that message me,or anyone else really, stop and think for a second
Think of how it looks to me. You're a blank wall and what can I really say to a blank wall. Nothing. That's why you need a real profile, something I can talk about or respond to. 
Why should I talk to you over every other blank profile?

Now I understand that it can be hard to fill an 'about me' section. What do I say? Where do I start? How much is enough? Or too much? You especially don't want to write something stupid or ridiculous. Completely understandable fear.
Your profile just needs to show that you tried. If you don't try and then you message me, why should I try and respond?
Remember whatever you say you can always go back and make it better if need be but you gotta start somewhere.

My Role 

I was going to put this in my profile but I thought having a separate piece would be better, plus it would make my profile a bit too long.
I think I fall somewhere between sub and babygirl.

I'm listed as a sub but after  doing some reading I don;t always feel that's a 100% fit by some peoples idea of submissive. I don't want to give up control of most my life to a Dom and I'm not interested in a 24/7 dynamic. At the same time bottom did not feel like it fits, at least not from what I understood of it as there are some things and situations I would give up control for, so bottom fell short of what I see myself as.

I tend to go by Babygirl because I like the nurturing and caring side of the daddy/girl dynamic. Plus I like the name babygirl :p
That said I'm not a little or an ageplayer, though I speak with a rhotacism so I can't pronounce my /R/'s properly. So I end up saying things tewwible and some people see that as sounding child-like.

This may not seem correct to others but its how I see myself.