I have been in the lifestyle for about 10 years and live it 24/7. I live in a Polly relationship with Master John.
I am totally comfortable with whom I am, know what I want and adore being a BBW woman. Master John and I both love making new friends in the lifestyle and having fun as well as socializing outside of events with fellow kinksters. Both Master John and I are involved in the ACT BDSM scene, and I am a member of ACT FemDom Society.
I wish to grow in my abilities as a Mistress, to continue learn how to better train a sub, learning, growing, and very very much enjoying the journey.
Sometimes I enjoy being very sadistic and other times I can be the total opposite. I have a wicked sense of humor, an especially wicked mind, enjoy teasing, controlling and I will always have fun on my own terms.
I am currently looking for a sub, or someone to play with. Physical appearance does not matter to me, a good attitude and personality does, including a well mannered, respectful, intelligent sub who can also hold a conversation. 
I do expect to be respected and valued by my submissive at all times. I do expect to be obeyed. I can be firm, but I can also be very caring. You would be tested, pushed, controlled and challenged to your limits, always at my discretion.
John and I so a lot of socializing, you would be expected to attend our events, as well as attending parties and munches held within the ACT BDSM.
IF YOU LIVE OVERSEAS, DON'T BOTHER WRITING I WON'T ANSWER, I AM LOOKING FOR REAL TIME NOT CYBER. Also you have to be over 30 years old. 
I am not interested in subs who wish to hide from their partners. If you say your partner knows about your desires and with you spending time with Me. I would expect to meet them to confirm that they do know and don’t have any problems or hang-ups about it.
If you do send a message, no
one-liners or form letters, put some thought into what you will say, also ensure your profile actually has something written on it. If you can’t make the time or be bother to write something about yourself, to Me that shows you may not take the time or proper interest in being a submissive.
