I do not seek games or those who seek to play them. I will not negotiate the nature of the surrender (that is the difference between slaves and submissives) , it must be complete and without restriction other than the hard limits I place upon myself (Nothing that involves children, death or permanent disfigurement, everything else is open and my choice (though I will state that I find nothing appealing or erotic about scat and therefore choose not to play with it)) I am seeking someone real and experienced who understands that this is not a game or a role play, it is simply life, on very structured and defined terms. Who understands that she need not agree or like any or everything I choose, she simply must obey, like it or not. And she does so not out of desire or seeking thrills or pleasure, but out of a deep seated need that cannot be sated in any other way. I am 6' and 197 lbs, I am in good shape and exercise daily. I am educated with advanced degrees and able to converse and write on an advanced level, I expect her to be similarly h&w proportional and relatively active. She should be intelligent and well read and able to write in proper English (yes, spelling and punctuation do count, because I said so...) Though there are very few on CM who meet these minimum standards, I would rather remain unattached rather than accept someone who is incapable of satisfying my desires. In actuality, I suspect few will respond as I do not offer the games that seem so much a part of the CM experience, but then, I seek a rare jewel that I shall shape to my preferences and polish as I desire, as my pleasures are the only ones she must care about. And, for her part all her desires are met by one SimplyinControl