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Although I have only in the life for a few years; I have learned and grown so much that it truly amazes and astounds me. From all the experiences I have encountered, I truly belief a proper training requires a Dom/me to work up to everything. Any Dom/me that value the submission that is given to them will realize this important tid bit of information and take that into account, especially with newbie’s. The lifestyle requires a trust, something the sub MUST give and without reservation.... and because it is a complete trust issue it needs to be earned. And this is the part that pisses me off, most Dom/mes think they are entitled to this trust, or some shit like that. In this world, you can barely trust your people you’ve known for years, yet there are some people out there that want submission and adherence without the thought of trust. It’s an important note most people in ANY lifestyle don’t take into account, trust is something that is earned.
I can’t imagine how hard the thought of giving total control is like, but this is the type of submission that is more encompassing than most people appreciate. I'm a Domme; I don’t like the thought of giving up control, not my bag...
As a sub, do you get off on the rush of it? Or is the thought beautiful to you? What’s your the thoughts behind that?
My submissives tell me “that is the allure of submission”.
I don’t get it personally, I could never do it. But then again, a COMPLETE submission is something most subs wouldn’t even consider. I could fake submission, like most do, hell I do it in my everyday life so I can function in the vanilla world. But be a true slave/sub, I just couldn’t do it. And because I know this, I truly feel this make me stand out over the rest.
I personally find submission to be so beautiful. It’s more than the kinky sessions that go on for hours and hours. For a man/woman to give of themselves without hesitation is something most people in this society can not understand. Submissives, you have to let go of all the rules society enriched in you. This is to submissive men especially, you NEED to let go of your pride and give of yourself without reservation. It is something that requires character and strength. Being a ‘bitch’ or your Master/Mistresses ‘bitch’ is not a bad thing, as your have been taught your whole life. It is gorgeous, and not to mention HOT, to lower yourself before a Dom/me and give. Your reward will be more than you will ever imagine.
Would you put your body and soul in the hands of another, trust that no matter what only good can come of it... even it times are not always prefect. I think it takes a very special kind of Dom/me to appreciate that... luckily enough for me... I am such a girl. :-P |
