I am Single(divorced) and 26 and recently moved to the Richmond area for my job. I have one child. I am here seeking a male who has experience with spanking. For me being spanked causes a release for me that calms me down makes me focus on my career and my goals and yes it can also be erotic of course. It is something that I have needed and enjoyed since i was 19. I can not explain why I need it or want it it is just a fact at times I crave it. If you can understand that then we might be a match. I prefer hands and floggers and some whips but I am not into being spanked with a paddle. Sorry just not my thing. I also enjoy some light breast play during the spanking play or before or after. I will be honest and let ya know that I am not seeking anymore than what I did mention above. I am not seeking intercourse with the person I meet for this at all. If that is important too you then I would not be a good match for you at all. I would like to find someone I could meet 3 or 4 times a month and yes I can use my place at nights. Looking for white men only please.