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| I am an independent, mature and open minded woman looking to enjoy the lifestyle. Please if you cannot at least match my maturity and intelligence level do not contact me. I don't mean to be rude but let's be honest, things like that matter in any situation. They are critical in a situation where someone is trusting you with their emotional and physical well-being.
And now that I have had my rant, sorry to those who found it annoying but honestly, it is my profile ;). I'm a brat. We should get that out of the way as soon as possible. I will push any limits you set and test all boundaries, partially because I enjoy being sarcastic (and have a bit of a Daddy/little girl fetish), partially because I need to know that you will enforce them. Knowing this should also come with the basic understanding that once I trust you to enforce said limits I will stop pushing them simply to test you and it will revert strictly to a playful thing.
I am playful. I like to joke and I would hope that anyone who shows interest in me will as well, it's a part of who I am and it won't change. I am also perfectly comfortable holding serious and educated discussions on any topic. I say any because if I don't know enough about the topic to hold the conversation yet I will ask you to help me learn about it, or at least to point me towards some research materials.
My submission is not a gift. I expect something in return for it. Just as you expect something in return for your domination. That's simply how things work. Neither of us is bringing anything more to the table than the other. We both have something we want to exchange for something else. Just as outside of our sexual activities (I.E. in our vanilla lives) there would be an offer for the mutual exchange of respect, honesty and trust (and would you believe those apply to the BDSM aspect as well?! *GASP*).
Last, but certainly not least, I do have a vanilla life. I have responsibilities and people who depend on me. They come first. They will come before play time, dates and quiet conversation. I don't say this to belittle anyone, only to clarify that if you expect me to drop everyone and everything to be at your immediate beck and call you will be sorely disappointed. Which is why I will not expect you to be at mine.
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