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Greeting's Submissive's
I'm into pleasing my submissive(s), and if you're looking for a Dom that's into plasing you in Every way, then please, look no further. I'm willing to train one-multiple submissive(s) and I need your complete attention if you want the "Sub-Space" that goes along with total submersion in the scene. Let me know if you are willing to be transformed.
I have been asked Many times about Dom and sub interaction.
What is it ??
How does one go about it ??
I have decided to start a running post here of things that I have shared with others, so that everyone may see them, even if it is just a Reminder, even if it is just for Me !!!
Indeed !!
The dominant is generally in charge of the scenes, but should still encourage the sub to give input and feedback. That does Not mean that when the sub asks the Dom what he wants to do, that the Dom says "I don't know, what do You want to do ??" The Dom should illicit the sub to voice any desires, but also make it Clear that the Dom is going to decide, ultimately, what is going to happen. There are times that the sub will want to focus solely on the Dom's satisfaction, but the Dom will need to clearly State those desires in order for the sub to act upon them.
There are many types of Dom and sub.
Some Doms only focus on what They want, and expect the sub to provide that.
Some subs live to be pleasing, and may even want there to be Dire consequences should the sub be unable to please the Dom.
Some Doms enjoy pleasuring the sub, and some subs quite enjoy this, other subs may see this as a sign of a weak Dom, and desire being used without regard.
It takes complete and honest communication between the two to suss out what they want, and Why.
Training can start with simple protocols, such as having the sub always respond with a "Yes, Sir", or "Yes, my Lord". The sub may be required to always follow 4 steps behind the Dom, on the Left side, or on the inside on a curb if on the street. The sub may be required to carry a cup, or tray; perhaps to be on all fours, or on a leash. The sub may have to ask for, and receive, permission to go to the bathroom, or even to leave the immediate presence of the Dom. The sub may have to get permission from the Dom before she can speak, or be spoken to, especially in public.
The Main thing is to take each, one at a time, and train the sub until they perform the protocol without thinking, then move on to the next protocol. Trying to train in Too Many protocols all at once is generally confusing, frustrating, and discouraging.
Having simple reminder phrases helps. My slave is commanded to always walk on the Inside of a sidewalk when we are out, and should she forget and wander to the curb, I say to her "Where are you ?" and she realises the mistake and moves into proper position.
I personally Like eye contact, especially when they cum, and feel that if the Dom cannot make eye contact, they cannot give evidence of their emotions. For Me, eye contact is a way to show that the girl is attentive and Enthusiastic, which I Love !!
I hope that this has started you thinking about what You would like to start trying !!!
Be seeing you !!!
Max Oblivion
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