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| I am selectively submissive . . . . if we’re not interested in each other as people first, then there’s no point in pursuing anything else.
When I do make that connection with someone, submission can be summed up quite simply for me – trust and safety, the release from control, the satisfaction of obedience, and the feeling of being wanted and enjoyed . . . all else is arbitrary.
So, how are we likely to make that connection? The perfect combination of likenesses and differences is difficult to quantify, but discovery starts with a conversation.
Here's a little about me to help spark that initial conversation . . .
I’m a mom, and my daughter comes first in my life, always.
I work with kids in the mental/behavioral health field. It's overwhelming at times, but I love what I do.
I’m polyamorous/non-monogamous. I do have a nesting partner. I do not believe that what you feel for one person can negate what you feel for another . . . . and I am not interested in being told who I can and cannot have feelings for. I am not looking for ownership.
I lean pretty far to the left politically. I don't discount friendships with those toward the other end, but anything deeper is unlikely at best.
I’m a geek, a nerd, and a dork . . . . I have a particular penchant for Doctor Who, all things Joss Whedon, and Neil Gaiman. I'm a writer, tabletop enthusiast, cosplayer, and crafter. I’m ridiculously socially awkward but I do an excellent job at hiding it in most situations.
I’m damaged. I come with baggage, but honestly, I think we all do . . . some just don’t like to admit it. I’m also quite capable of laughing at myself and I take precious little in this life seriously.
I’m honest to a fault. I don’t like wasting people’s time and I don’t like other people wasting mine.
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