I am a recent widower, who's late wife was extremely vanilla. I've been into the lifstyle for a few years, but mostly on-line. I'm looking for a sub to speak with at first through emails, then possibly meet in person. If it goes further that's great, if not, then it's just good to have someone to discuss a mutual interest with. Im interested in ropes, handcuffs, dildo play, ass play (giving), and orgasm deprivation. If I think I can trust you, I'll send a picture.