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SilverandBlue

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Looking for a dom or owner of any gender. Since I'm grey-a, I'm very open to poly. Ideally, looking for a relationship heavy on mental domination / care-taking, not just scenes. Although I also miss doing scenes. Specific likes include D/s, flogging, rope, bondage in general, knifeplay, mindfucks, and sensation play. I don't like French kissing. I do like being made to cry and cuddling afterwards. My ideal relationship includes long stretches of us on opposite sides of the couch or room doing our own thing, interspersed with tickle fights, bondage, and other play. The short version about me: genderqueer (androgyne, no pronoun preference), generally masculine presenting, faab, grey-asexual, aromantic, androsexual (since apparently some people use this to mean penis only, I mean I like masculinity and don't care about the body), submissive (but not online). If you don't know what all those mean, Google is a thing. I'm a giant geek and super creative. I'm rarely interested in sex (a few times a month), but willing to do it more often with the right person / people, as long as it's not the focus of the relationship. The focus of the relationship would hopefully be D/s. While I like compliments as much as the next person, my physical appearance isn't usually the way to go. I don't like being treated like a lady or a little girl. A kitty, yes. If you can't use proper spelling and grammar, don't bother. I really mean this. I type like this drunk and while texting. And while texting drunk.
4/23/2013 9:18:53 PM

Yes, I'm grey-asexual. That means I am very very rarely interested in sex. BDSM and sex are completely separate for me. If you're obsessed with sex or want it more than once a week or less, you should probably just move on.

lovelynunu
 
 Age: 34
 NY, New York