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No picture = no reply. No I wont chat on Yahoo until I trust that you are not a nut bag on a day pass. I'm not going to call you either. I put myself out on here honestly. Did you guys think that was easy? It is just as hard for women as it is men. Do not ask of me what you won't do yourself. Confident Assertive, Intelligent, Witty sometimes Sarcastic Sub in search of a true dominant male. I need a man that does not get off on bossing or beating a woman.   What I need is a man that knows that when the power in a relationship is appropriately placed everyone involved is the better for it. I want the whole package. For me this is a lifestyle. Not just a sex game. I will not be belittled or treated inhumanely. I am not looking to be anyone's slave either. I also do not need "training" I am very VERY good at treating the man I am in a relationship with the way he ought to be treated. I believe in fierce loyalty and commitment. I believe that two people can live very happily in a Dom Sub relationship and still have romance, gentleness, and respect for one another and everything that makes the other unique. I do not submit easily. My submission must be earned, asked for, then consented to, and always treated like the gift that it is. ONLY after that will I submit to anyone.

6/2/2009 10:52:56 AM Ya'll have got to be kidding me! I am going to go ahead and post on here in order to maybe stop that absolutely insane people from sending me messages and wasting my time and theirs. What qualities does my ideal mate have? Confidence, Honesty, Integrity, Open mindedness, Intellect, Loyalty,Adventurous, Curiosity. He is NOT a bully, arrogant, self flagellating,INSANE, or addicted to anything. How do I envision my "perfect" relationship? That is a little harder to explain. I CRAVE a 1950's type relationship. Maybe early 60's would be better... I believe that my opinion is just as important and valuable as his. I need to know that he will weigh the good of everyone involved when his decision is made. He is the breadwinner and takes financial care of the household, but I still work and provide my fair share also. I am responsible for cooking, cleaning and making sure his comforts are met. He is not above surprising me with dinner when I walk in from work every now and again also. He is romantic as romantic and sensitive as I am and works just as hard as I do to maintain open communication and affection. He playfully smacks my ass as he passes me in the midst of daily living living or quickly bites my neck. He will play with the children while I am making dinner. He knows that even though he is "head" of the household and he has final say on important matters such as scheduling, big expenses and household rules.... I can still go out and buy a fabulous pair of shoes without "permission." Now onto Sex. You guys are all about the sex on here. Yes, I tend to like extreme sex MOST OF THE TIME. That does not mean that I do not often crave good old fashioned vanilla (ok not quite vanilla, but if I am usually rocky road I sometimes like strawberry) sex. I do not like to be humiliated. I am an awesome person. I do not foresee myself "needing" or be belittled in any way shape or form. Yes, I will occasionally ask for you to play with my ass, but seriously it is only going to happen out of the blue, like when I am slightly tipsy or you send roses to work then made dinner. I will probably never give you permission to play with my ass just cause it is usually a huge ordeal. Let's just say some parts of my body were not meant to stretch. Sometimes too big is well too big! I do like to limit test, occasionally. I do like water sports. Receiving not giving thank you very much. For me it is about subspace. Feeling as if I can let go and trust someone else to take me to the edge but not push me over is HEAVEN! I like pain. Not a lot of it but more than some people less than some also. I like to know I am pleasing the other person. I get great pleasure in knowing I am pleasing others. This is NOT just a sex thing. I am just as happy completing a list of tasks for my honey as I am watching his eyes roll in the back of his head as he cums with such vigor that I choke. I will not call you Master. I will not lick your feet. I will not rely on you to give me my worth. On the other hand. I will respect you and who you are and everything that makes you unique. I will accept you fully for who you are in appreciation for you doing the same. I will also do everything in my power to ensure your happiness. This is all confusing and may even at times seem to conflict itself to some. I am positive though that out there, somewhere there is a man who "gets it" That man should totally message me!