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Greetings A/all.
An M/s dynamic is probably where I'll end up in the future but i won't pass up the opportunity for the right D/s relationship either. Serving is where i belong; it is who I am. The Master of all Masters is whom i desire to serve. Mediocrity will not be entertained. He will find me...I await Him patiently. It is not that it is impossible, it's just that chemistry has to be there. That's the beauty of the lifestyle. it is not only safe, sane and consensual, it's about being true to thyself.
I adore intelligent men who are able to hold a decent conversation. We must enjoy some of the same vanilla interests. Chess is one of them.
I don't want to hide behind a made up screen name, a rehearsed profile or even pics to lure anyone into my life. I don't want to be bombarded with a lot of junk from dominants seeking sex slaves and sluts - i am not her. I love African American men but after a year of exploring, I am open to other races but would prefer my own. But to the white Masters/Dom, please don't get it confused and scratching your temples thinking that you've landed the right black "bitch" because your bubble will be burst. Have some dignity when you approach me please. This is not historical slavery and i don't or won't serve in that capacity. The way in which i would serve someone of another race will not excel beyond that of my own color.
i'm not interested in seeing the head of your penis either; the head on top of your neck matters to me and what's in it. I am into real time and will not play the online dating game.
I'm far from perfect and have erred many times in my journey but i am growing and want to serve under someone who can help perfect my development. I'm not looking to be micro managed and i don't need a babysitter. I don't want to seek permission to use the restroom - please don't create havoc with my bodily functions. That's not a good indication to me of a good Master/Dominant so if this is offensive, then i am definitely not the slave/sub that you seek. I'm not afraid nor too timid to negotiate what i want in my life. That's what it is all about, right?
If you wish to communicate with me, please be upfront and honest. Should you mislead me, that will be an automatic termination of any possible friendship. Sometimes we feel shame and embarrassment about things relating to ourselves and therefore are apprehensive about sharing. Keep in mind that those core secrets do reach the surface at one time or another. Save yourself from ruining what could become a lasting dynamic - eliminate the lies and don't overly embellish. For example, I'm a big girl and definitely need to hit the gym and drop a few pounds. I only need to do this for my health, not for you. But i will not throw up a pic from twenty years ago knowing that i'm pushing over two and some change (easily). Do you feel me gentlemen? I am not a size 2, 6 or 12 or 14. If that is what you want, then i'm not her either. I won't be offended. A lot of people don't like fat people and you should go with what you prefer because that is exactly what i am going to do. Now moving right along!
Though my goal is to serve, I will not be a financial slave supporting a man who does not want to work. I haven't met anyone smart enough to take advantage of me financially. I'm not giving, sending or bailing anyone out of debt. If those are your expectations, then i am not her. Seriously!
At some point in our lives, we should already have established and/or acquired certain things. In other words, do you own a home or rent? That really doesn't matter if you have a roof over your head (but not living with your mother - only if you are taking care of her). Do you pay your bills and pay them on time? That shows responsibility. If you have children, do you take care of and provide for them to the best of your ability? If you don't tke care of your seed, you certainly won't take care of me.
If you have extensive history with the criminal justice system, I'm not your girl. Don't pursue me.
If you are diseased, that won't make for wonderful intimacy. There's no need to pursue me. I'm not that open-minded, understanding or sympathetic. I don't like catching the flu, let alone an STD or virus. That is why for me it is important that my Master is disease free. This is non-negotiable.
I hate cigarette and cigar smoke. I don't like it in my house. It provides for a stale smelling atmosphere. I like fresh, clean aromas. But if you desire to quit smoking, i can bend the rules. Otherwise, i'm not interested in smokers.
If you are a sexual pervert who enjoys children and if you get your rocks off on child pornography, then take a step back and get some counseling. I am not your girl and don't even consider pursuing me.
I don't want someone who is into drugs. I've been that route in my younger day. I do not like drunks either and would prefer someone who is a social drinker or not a drinker at all. Meeting someone who is a non-drinker will help me along my way in eliminating this poison from my life (But every now and then i love a mixed drink - lol).
If you are married, in a vanilla relationship, gay or bisexual - i am not interested. I prefer straight men. This is non-negotiable.
I detest a liar. I'm going to call you out on it. You don't have to fake with me.
Please don't ask me to send you pics and i am not doing a web cam session for you. Photo sessions costs money. I've already taken a few pics that I regret. And yes, did i mention i've erred in my ways. Refer to paragraph #5. But i've grown since then.
And just so you know, I'm into music - I have a CD project in the making. I am designing my own men's cologne and women's perfume. I write a lot and have finished a book but have not published it yet. I am involved in the vanilla community supporting education, Breast Cancer Awareness, Homelessness, Domestic Violence and some more causes. I can cook and i love taking care of natural hair (no i don't do perms).
I'm actively involved in the lifestyle community and attend many events and volunteer for many (in state and out).
I can provide character references. Can you? I have two mentors/trainers. One is a Master and one is a slave. Both are well known in the community.
I am not going to try to impress you by lying and saying that i have everything to offer a wonderful Master. I don't have everything but i have some things and i am constantly working to improve myself so that I can be pleasing to the one that i will serve.
I'm back in school - finishing what i started some time ago (it's never too late).
As far as kinks, i'm not a masochist although i can stand some levels of pain and am not afraid to be pushed beyond my limits.
My kinks are listed here, but not many.
I am very smart and enjoy the mindfucking process that you may attempt to use on me. It won't work. I've learned from the best so don't embarrass yourself. Enjoy your journey.
P.S. - I am very nice though when treated nice but when the bitch comes out, it's not a pretty sight and that is not the image that i want to project anyway.
Enough for now - you have to work with what's here. I wasn't trying to write another book!
Silky
Any my name is Silky, not Silkey. I had to use Silkey to get the profile. Thank you.
Namaste
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