After a long and unfulfilling search, I have  decided to deactivate my account with Collarme.  To anyone who is actually able to find a suitable partner from this site, you have my congratulations and best wishes for a bright and happy future.
 
Some things stay just beyond my reach... I get close enough to touch but never close enough to hold onto.  With time, they gain separation from me...but not I, in my desire for them.

Peace to all.