I am here looking for the perfect pet to complete my family. I am married to a Transgender (female to male) husband and we are looking for a pet to have and to own. We prefer females since we both identify as lesbians, but we need a bio male in our lives right now too.  We aren't into scening all the time, we feel that there is a time and place for sex play and a time and place for relating as friends.

I am dominant and my partner is a switch. While I like to play with a person's body, my partner is more available for sexual encounters.

We need a bio masculine personality in the home to balance off all this estrogen. We need to keep in touch with the male gender and we simply don't get much exposure to that on a social level having been traveling mostly in lesbian social circles.

Our social life consists of our lesbian friends, going to Pride events, we join a gay pool each summer to swim and socialize at. We don't really have much involvement with the hetero community. I would really like more of that. We don't have much masculine influence nor do we have much hetero influences and we are seeking to have more of that in our lives.

As much as we like playing in this lifestyle, first and foremost we are really happy people. We laugh ALL the time. I don't mean we sit and 'beavis and butthead' laugh all the time, I mean we have some real laughter because of real things. We don't do drama, and we've been that way successfully for about a decade now.

When problems arise, we talk it out intelligently and respectfully with each other. It's an ongoing process but our communication is amazing.

I suppose since we do have such a strong hold on man's humanity to man, we both find it hard to 'punish' people. Even in play. With a sub or slave, we verbally correct. If there is outright defiance I assume the sub/slave is behaving that way because they want playtime. Well, for me, playtime is a reward. The more a person acts out, the more they get ignored. That seems to not be the norm when it comes to this lifestyle. I don't believe in negative reinforcement, only reward systems.

I must be honest with you, we are looking to get pregnant down the road, so our perspective sub/slave might also turn out to be a sperm donor. That would mean that it's imperative that the person be healthy on all levels.