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Thank you for viewing my profile.
I'm 39, working on my second bachelors and then towards a master and PhD in psychology.
I'm mentally stable (mostly) and I enjoy a wide range of activities when I'm not studying or working.
I live alone with my dogs and a couple of bee hives. Exercise and eating healthy are important to me. Balance is important to me and my best life is to be found in a wide range of activities that express my individuality and satisfy my creativity.
I am looking for a long term relationship with a loving, dedicated, communicative woman who wants a permanent position in a safe, loving, trusting partnership.
I've lived an adventurous and sometimes difficult life and I've emerged relatively unscathed with a skill set and mindset that few possess.
I can't promise that a life with me will be easy, but it will certainly be interesting and more rewarding than a life without me.
There exists some debate in economic circles as to when man invented "division of labor".
I say to you, viewer, that "man" did not invent division of labor--woman did. From the moment one of our primitive ancestors produced a significantly larger gamete and thus a greater contribution to reproduction there existed division of labor.
As humans evolved, the second sex became the filter for natural selection. We fight, struggle, earn status, and sacrifice our lives to be worthy of reproduction even--quixotically--if it leads to premature death!
To call a man evil and brutal because he commits violence is as absurd as calling him a coward for not reciprocating violence. We are products of a million years of evolution and female reproductive choice. Women chose the men they wanted. They wanted strong men, who protect, and rule and in so doing--serve.
Who is the slave/master? The farmer who makes a mule pull a plow all day and provides the mule with food, shelter, affection, and tends to it when it is sick? Or is it the farmer who is the slave who plows the fields all day in the burning sun to come home to a wife who provides him with food, shelter, affection, and tends to him when he is sick?
The relationship between men and women has always been an economic relationship with a division of labor. No amount of feminist historical fabrication can change that. Men serve women. Women serve men. Any breach of that protocol is the aberration and oppressive to both genders.
This is not a paraphilia or something to be ashamed of. If a woman belongs to a man doesn't he also belong to her as well? And if the man does own her isn't that position to be preferred for the woman has value to him and for that he will fight to defend, protect, and provide for her? And in protecting and providing the man also has value to her. He is her slave just as she is his.
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Howdy journal readers.
This is my first entry into the journal and I thought I'd put a few things down that I'm interested in.
This list is by no means comprehensive as I'm new an have yet to actually experience my first dom/sub encounter.
Ideally, I'd like a LTR with monogamy, family, a house, 2 dogs, etc. etc. You know, that vanilla American Dream that my mom and dad had (before they divorced!).
I insist on a trusting partnership where both partners are both dependent on the other in a mutually respectful division of labor. I admire women who are independent and self-sufficient but even these women have an internal need to be controlled and dominated and in that submission they find safety, peace, and happiness. I get that and I want to provide that, but first I need to be with someone I connect with and someone I get along with and trust.
If I can't trust you or respect you then dominating you would be a futile waste of time.
Some women have a chip on their shoulder. I get that. Some women have a whole bag of chips on their shoulder. That doesn't work for me.
I like women who want to be women. The more girly the better. I like a woman in a dress, preferably a cotton sun dress which are my favorite.
I've never hit a woman in my life so my interest in this purely hypothetical. Nonetheless, if it gets her off then I'm certain it would do wonders for me.
I have an appetite for sexual ravishment. I dated a woman who wanted to be rape. I hated that not because of the fantasy but because she described it as rape rather than ravishment which is what she really meant. I will take nothing from a woman that isn't freely given.
So, back to ravishment. . . or also sex on demand. I can really get into that. Probably not as often as when I was 20, but I tell you in the last few days the very thought of this, since I discovered it, has lit me on fire, and not in a burning urinary tract infection kind of way, but in a "balls working overtime to produce testosterone and make me horny kind of way."
Well, I don't want to be too graphic (is that possible on a BDSM site?).
I also like sexual humiliation (for her!). Well, to be more clear, it is interesting to me. Deep throating, on your knees, crawling, begging. . . yeah that sounds nice.
I'm not so sure about the spanking and pain part. God knows there have been women in my life that I would have liked to punch the crap out of but I never did. That said, I could very much enjoy it under the right circumstances, but it's not necessary, yet.
Yes I like them young and pretty. Who doesn't? But I'm a realist and a novice and if I can find a nice relationship with someone older and more experienced then I'd be interested in exploring that.
I'm not into scat play, or piss, or fisting. Well maybe fisting ;) But the others are kind of nasty. Maybe if I fall down and hit my head a couple times it might become more interesting. Until then you will have to use the toilet like the rest of humanity. (Except those in the third world--they use a hole in the ground or the side of someone's house.)
So is that enough? Well not really. I do want to say one thing more and it's for those who actually took the time to read this far.
I'm not a man whore. (I'm not good looking enough!)
I want a serious relationship which focuses on trust and friendship first and which explores our boundaries so as to satisfy each others basic sexual and human needs for companionship. Nothing to kinky or weird about that.
The rest is gravy.
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| Age: 29 |
| Palmdale,
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