I am a sensual dominant who enjoys both the psychological and the physical aspects of D/s play.
I am looking for a fit, attractive, intelligent, confident submissive who is ready to explore and learn more about herself than she ever previously dared.
A "sensual" Dominant means that I am not a sadist. I do not get pleasure from inflicting pain for pain's sake. I will use some pain play merely as a means to enhance pleasure as there is a incredible dynamic between the two.
I am primarily focused on my submissives's orgasm(s). That interest can range from forced orgams (multiple) to complete denial -- all as part of the dynamic between us.
I am looking for a LTR submissive, but not necessarily a long-term personal relationship. Meaning that I would enjoy having a submissive that I care for and enjoy on multiple levels (not just play), but am not necessarily looking for an exclusive relationship at this time. Having said that, I am open to whatever develops between my submissive and myself.
My loves: Bondage (I have a number of bondage devices/furniture), Orgasm control, nipple play, ass play, some pain play (again, mostly to enhance pleasure), some humiliation play (mostly to stimulate the brain), and more.
I go slow. I like to build an understanding of my submissive's needs/wants/desires while simultaneously learning how her body and mind react to various situations.
I am open to women of all ages - if you write to me, I will write you back. Newbies as well as experienced submissives welcome.
6/28/2012 10:59:29 AM
Off to first TES FEST this weekend in Parsippany NJ. Give a shout out if you will be there.