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Queenalice
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| Have you been in a bind lately? Would you like to be? Intelligent, sensual, conscientious Intimate Dom seeking a bottom (or potential sub) for tying, spanking, sensory play, mummification, and flogging experiments. I am honest, open, open-minded, and true and do not pretend to be anything that I am not. I am not in the lifestyle to stroke my ego or play silly games - I am far too secure and strong to need such things. I am a bit laid-back in my approach - I am kind and understanding, but not afraid to pull you up short when needed. I enjoy exploring how the lifestyle can be an implement through which to achieve considerable good. I seek to be a force of 'goodness' and light in my personal life (without religious trappings), and that naturally spills over into my kinky life as well. My style is more intimate than most you may have ever encountered. I'm very sensual, as by nature I am a creature of touch. Caressing your body, kissing it, biting it... You doing likewise... These are my joys. (I am Not looking for 'hook-ups' for intercourse - I am very selective with whom I enter, and Sex just isn't the first thing on my list.) I am different than most guys - I am not centered on my penis! I am more interested in play and sensations derived in uncommon ways! I Do flog, and take great delight in spanking, but I am not a sadist in the way that I get a thrill out of the act itself. I do it because I love the reactions, the squirms, the moans, and surprising my bottom... I'm very mischievous like that! Of course, the redness, the bruises and welts, the sweat and ligature marks all make for beautiful art as well! And sometimes that look of fear on your face when you have no idea what I'm going to do to you next in a scene can be absolutely priceless! I am quite accomplished with rope, and enjoy creating art with it (see my pics). I'm not comfortable with doing suspensions yet, but am learning to do so under the tutelage of a local renowned practitioner. I take responsibility in my play, and My partner's safety is my top desire. (After all - what good are my toys to me if they are broken? Besides, trips to the ER just aren't all that much fun!) I have been branching out into the first thing that people ask me when they hear my name - I do mummifications, and have great fun with it! I see it as another extension of my art. I had a membership to Palatial Mansion (RIP), and am regularly seen at Dragonsgate and often at Passive Arts - once in a while at Sanctuary, Threshold, and Lair. In addition, I am an active member of BDSM West, and can be found at just about every one of their functions. I am also frequently at Lord Dan's 5th Wednesday Social, and discovering OCLA. I'm not too concerned about appearances (yes, BBWs are definitely welcome and often preferred) and age isn't a big factor for the most part (so long as you are legal) - I'm more interested in your Mind. If you are good of spirit, intelligent and clean, I will most likely be interested in meeting and eventually scening with you. If you are outside of California, and don't get here all that often, please don't bother me with anything other than casual discussion. And please, No Creepy Old Men. And Disrespectful Users (particularly male) will be Blocked - This is your only warning. I'm also seeking friends of all stripes - no matter orientation or interest. If you're here and you can piece together intelligible sentences without resulting to shorthand, you're probably an interesting person that I'd like to talk to! Further, if you are seeking assistance with the lifestyle and want some links to good folks in the OC area, or you just want to talk about anything at all, I'd be glad to help. Drop me a line, and I just might bind you with it!
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It seems that on almost every page I have visited on this site, the girl is complaining about all the rude guys on here and how it has soured them on everyone. Well, unfortunately there's a lot of these guys everywhere on the internet, no matter what site you go to. This one happens to be free, so that probably only further compounds the problem.
I know it's tough to deal with, especially when so many of these guys want to start out by automatically assuming you are already their submissive, rather than realizing that honor has to be given. But that's one of the problems the community faces in general. There are both guys and girls who seem to think that everyone who is out playing must be a slut who is open to anyone playing with them just because they happen to identify with the opposite role. (It's really sad to see how almost every Domme I've ever met can't have a decent conversation without getting approached by some sad-sack sub begging them to play). You wouldn't go up to a stranger on the street and start treating them like that - what makes you think you can do it online or in the dungeon?
However, these complaining women need to realize that most of these guys who write them are talking out their asses and hiding behind a computer screen. If you were ever to call them out to a dungeon, they would never show up. They want to live in their fantasy worlds which get even more twisted from reality because they are able to do anything in their world. So these guys need to be Ignored. However, it should not reflect on Everyone on the site, and bitching about it isn't gong to solve the problem.
If you are going to be on this site, or any site of this type on the internet (vanilla as well!), you have to be willing to put up with the never-done-Jacks and realize that they are usually easy to spot a mile away, often within the first line of their e-mail. It IS worth it to stay on - there Are some good, intelligent people out there who actually know what they are talking about and Will actually meet you in the dungeon. Yes I happen to be one of these good folks, and I do detest the keyboard jockeys who ruin it for the real people. But I challenge all of you submissives to be strong out there (you Have to be strong to be a submissive, no matter what you might think initially! It's actually much harder to be a sub than it is a Dom in some respects, and that's part of why I have infinite respect for subs!) and weather the storm of fakers out there. There are some genuine good people, and one of them just may turn out to be the gem you seek (or at least a good friend to help you in your exploration of this path)!
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| Age: 38 |
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