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Pan Transgender Switch, 34,  Milwaukee, Wisconsin
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Just to keep something up various losers here.











Last Online:


 Transgender Switch



 5' 10"

 300 lbs



 African Descent



Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

 Lives For:

 Anal Play (Beginner)

 Bondage (Beginner)

 Rubber Fetish

 Mathematics (Expert)



 Corsets (Beginner)

 Crossdressing (Expert)


 Hypnosis (Expert)

 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training


 Orgasm Denial

 Maid/Butler Service

 Outdoor Bondage

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Role Playing




 Occultism (Expert)




 Body Worship

 Breast Play


 Canes and Crops

 Chastity (Expert)

 Collars (Beginner)

 Electrical Play



 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Domestic Service

 Hair Pulling


 Housework Service (Beginner)



 Masks (On Partner)

 Masks (Wearing)

 Massage (Getting)

 Massage (Giving)

 Medical Play

 Pantyhose Fetish

 Plastic Wrap

 Public Play

 Speech Restrictions (Beginner)


 Strap-Ons (Beginner)


 Vacuum Stimulation




 Gas Masks



 Curious About:


 Foot Worship



 Sensory Deprivation


 Theatrical Scenes


 Wax play


 Corner Time

 Hard Limits:


 Genital Punishment

 Fire Play


 Knife Play

 Needle Play

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Journal Entries:
5/27/2015 11:20:58 AM
As I make this journal entry I do not care the haters that will inevitably chime in with their two pennies. Know this if you email and you get hostile I just delete won't even open.

If you want real results go out in to real world munches, conventions and various fetish balls and meetups are better than this crap. If you don't live in BDSM friendly city don't expect much that's just the nature of things.

So after months having more flakes waste my time and a few turn out ok I'd figured I leave pointers for the submissives and slaves who actually want use out of this site.
The size of the site will invariably draw men to you. Need not fret. Most REAL MEN here are genuine, affectionate and caring. The rest are narcisstic, selfish, timid, and conceited boys trying to play out their fantasies. Most will turn bitter if you say no or don't obey them despite not actually collaring you or going through the proper process. Most will dick you around for months and weeks promising you anything while you using you sexually or just for mere company with some form of email, pictures voice, or text communication to cyber and fantasy role play online. They will never go past this stage. Ditch them they do not care for you or themselves that much.

Should you make it deeper with some men inevitably you find the ones in real life who can't commit, don't know how to train, and have no real balls to take your desires or their own deeper depite making promises. These ones are flakes, can't keep schedules, promies, a job or for that matter consistency in their role. Don't worry again most REAL MEN here rarely are like this. If go on date make sure it's public or the are trust worthy. So many males here are creeps and will gladly abuse you in to deeper situation should you try a live in situation.  Both groups of the men from the outset think it's their right to have you do whatever again a real man safe sane and consensual will go through the procees. Boys who want to act like pimps or human trafficers won't. Should you get through either of these stages then things open up till then it feels like hell finding someone reasonable.

In the end for most submissives there is nothing wrong with you short of the few truly crazy people I met and I'm a little off balance when I say that. Be yourself, trust those who earn it and give in. Anything more is abuse and coercion. Don't be discouraged cut through the crap and get what you want after all the wankers, game players,  pushy fantasists do but they want nothing of real substance or value long term.

PS I have an auntie and master who train/own me anyone below them is mere play or experience for me.

5/22/2015 5:35:49 PM
Only warning to certain players and predators here. If you engage and ask me to take certain things under consideration then I will assume you have read the profile and journals with some desire to deal with practical realities of my life. Should during any communications when we meet up, be it REAL LIFE or ONLINE demonstrate you glanced over these things you will be ignored or dropped like other deadbeats, flakes, and zealots here. Life and death are too short for the willfully ignorant, egotistical, or fascist. I'm quite real to those that actually took the effort to meet me continually for the past 15 years. Some of you should rethink your approach or how you come off before blaming others for why you have no one who wishes to be intimate with you.

5/22/2015 5:30:12 PM
Here are a few tips to make your existence at any bdsm profile site easier
Life is too short to waste time on the small minded or spiteful
Never be an option for someone when they ask you to be a priority
Chance is what you get, luck is what you make
Never take it personal, some people are just born assholes or want to be offended too easily

2/6/2013 11:30:33 AM

A new year a new growth for me and it's very welcome.

As I consolidate my life with those I truly wish for I wish strangers and for some stalkers who come across me to realize something about me. I've had the major success I've wanted in life from in many ways. What I am for or am motivated by quite frankly doesn't involve most of you nor does it need to as the universe, this planet, and quite frankly this government give me the right to it.

If you want me to be part of your life make no illusions that it's you wanting me to come to you. I can serve my fetishes, fantasies, goals, and myself without the need for a bigger attachment. Yet this doesn't mean I do not long for it or wish to be with another. Doesn't mean that the other person I wish to bond with is an exact clone or very much like me. However it doesn't mean I make the rules. I'm switch and bottom mostly, D/s is just a role and the more I see it nothing like an actual life that I've experienced or have seen out of most.

For the few that really share a lifestyle I admire the ability to balance a world that is hostile to fetish, kink, and bdsm. For those within the community that keep misrepresenting you are harming yourselves and others with views that have little to do with D/s and more to do with just enslaving someone you're attracted too.

I know what I am and can clearly show it when offered a real chance or I can really meet another. If most here are against the idea of being turned in to something they are not you shouldn't come to me knowing what I really need or want and expect me to play by your rules. Some of you need to be reminded you did not make this world you enhance or reduce it.

2/26/2012 11:18:22 PM


This main journal can be summed as to compromise vs sacrifice.
A submissive trying to gaining my attention should be given credit for the inspiration of this. Recently had couple approach me that I was highly compatible with, yet it fell apart at one detail.
My clit or to some who can't take me referring to it as that my appendage, my cock or dick. There is no hiding of what I wish to do with my genitals if I had my way which to degree I have for sometime. So I will state it again if I was given to the chance to geld or castrate my cock and balls this instant I would. I have no interest or desire to compromise in this area. You can put me in chastity forever, use a pussy prosthetic or even give me srs. Yet I have no interest in allowing to myself be blown or more so pretending to be eager for having one. There is endless amount of shemales and trannies who have no problem in this area so really go elsewhere before coming to me with that expectation.
There are many things I will do to become a shiny toy whose only purpose to make her holes and body available for whoever. Yet if what you desire is totally in conflict with that image I present, don't feel in anway I would trust you for a second in giving my submission or letting you collar me. I'm not slave and to be honest most of you don't even have the means let alone intellect to be caring for, or making me a slave. Just like my desire for feminization to a certain point or to present myself in a certain feminine style free of certain expectations. I do not care for those who think my appendage sums me up. Just like I am black my clit doesn't sum up my identity nor is it what I make it about. For a community that gripes about how they are seen to others and how they are tolerant some here are worse than the christians that raised me and still accept me despite revealing myself to them.
 For the foolish predators who need this to be up permanently to show where my devotion and priorities are be warned, I will flat out ignore those who try to persuade me otherwise.


12/27/2011 1:35:53 PM
For those in to deep service besides just sex and actually wondering what my experiences or skills are I leave this for you. Most of my skill training growing up was white collared focus mainly electronical enginnering, various pc skills including building a repiar software or hardware. Despite that unlike a lot of men I have actual construction experience and can do a variety of things in the home to keep it well maintained. My other training revolves around office duties and basic accounting/inventory. I'm a natural cook and have worked at restuarants though for dominants desiring this I will have to be instructed on your desires before I can satisfy you. 
My attitude for these things is also enthusiastic as I believe and know working makes the sweet things in life even sweeter

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