Wondering where everyone is?  

Hoping to have a great week this week.  Bday coming up on Wed and looking forwarrd to some time to celebrate this weekend.  Where is everyone ?   I may be a GiGis this weekend ... Maybe my bday present will show up. 

Checking Paypal for bday updates  LOL .

I guess most here are looking for really harsh Dommes.  New to the lifestyle and had a mentor who gave me early guidance but neglected to finish mentoring.  Don't take a non response as being not interested. 

 Remember a powerful woman hardly ever has to be a bitch and a bitch is usually never a powerful woman. 

Sigh  another hectic day at the office.  I'm way to stressed.  Maybe if I had a sub to draw me a bath I'd feel better.  Hmmmm. 

It's so hard to tell how to move here sometimes.  Do you jump right in and make demands that may be not only unreasonable but possibly unwelcome.  I believe the D/s  relationship is based on mutual trust and respect.  It is a great responsibility to be someones Mistress.  I take that seriously and try to move at a pace that seems reasonable but its really hard to tell.  It's easy to become impatient on both sides as the pace ebbs and flows. 

Maybe that comes with experience and maybe you just work it out in each encounter.

Happy New Year everyone... I do hope you get all that you deserve.  :-)

I may go to gi gi's this weekend and see what that has to offer up - wonder if anyone here is game.   "J" are you listening ?  LOL 

Such great responses to my profile.  Haven't decided yet how I'll choose - but I'm sure it will cum to me.