I have three rules.. They are simple and easy to remember. NOT hard at all to comprehend. 

1. NO alcohol or drugs the day of a scene. Play time should be done with out the assistance of any mind or mood altering substances. You as well as I need to 100% in the moment, and alcohol or drugs lowers inhibitions and makes it very difficult to assess limits. 

2. You must be 100% honest with me. NO lying, no pushing the truth. If you are in another relationship, I want to know. If something is not working, I want to know. If you have broken rule #1 I want to know.

3. NO intercourse. The scene or play time is about Ds, power exchange, or just pure pain. What ever the agreed upon dynamic, sexual intercourse is not part of it. 

These are my three rules. Everything else is negotiable. 

Why is it so hard for a play partner/ submissive/ whatever to understand this? 

And, if you try to slide one past me and then lie about it... well that's two strikes and I will walk away in a heartbeat and not look back.

Life is ever changing. Nothing is guaranteed.  

Just when I think that life is going the way I want, every thing shifts.

I have been reading over my journal enrties and have found most of them to be very negative and bitchy. I am not going to delete them, because they mark a mindset and feeling I was going thru at that specific time. I am going to say though, I have decided to be more of a positive thinker.

Huggs and smiles...

SA

Amazing how some people have nothing better to do but to police other peoples profile and make trouble... I have had the same profile/ pictures and journal entries forever. NOW some asshole submissive that doesn't know his ass from a hole in the ground decided it is his duty to act like a five year old... and try to stir up trouble.  So not even worth a personal email back to this childish prick....

It's a great day... the Sun is shinning, and the weather is great...

Actually a great day to 'play' outside.. maybe with someone tied from a tree, naked and waiting...

Yet another sub from Collar Me that talks a good game, but does not back it up... are there any REAL submissive/slave males out there that are action and not just talk....

Really... you call yourself a submissive even a slave, but you demand what you want. you have no idea of what a real D/s relationship would require. you spend a day sending email after email, and after a couple of exchanges on the net, you think you can intimidate a Domme into meeting with you. you have no idea about the local community, no references, and no idea even HOW to be a submissive... you ARE looking for a woman you can top from the bottom, that you can control into what you want...well guess what, NOT ME.... I will not threaten you like you did me, I will not spread your name over this site like a child with a grudge, any real Dominant will find out for themselves with in a couple of emails what you are not...