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I consider myself as an experienced, well-disciplined and sensual Dominant, who can play soft or hard as the desire or need arises.
I am an unattached bachelor (a real one, having never been down the aisle), residing in the Greater Toronto Area of Ontario. I stand a shade over 5'10", with brown eyes and hair (with the inevitable encroachment of grey), clean shaven, with no tattoos or body piercings. Tipping the scales at 220lb, I am safe, healthy, clean, record- and drug-free, coupled with being gentle, lusty, passionate, humourous and loyal.
I have been a discreet Dominant practitioner of the lifestyle for just over 27 years, having enjoyed real-time experience exploring and sharing BDSM with both novice and experienced female submissive companions.
I seek to meet a sincere, mature-minded and genuine female submissive - someone who deeply desires to explore, experience and share both erotic and sensual BDSM (bringing to life her submissive fantasies) with the eventual goal of entering into a rich relationship (hopefully developing into one of long-term/permanance).
A dedicated believer in SSC, I am creative, caring and playful, yet equally strict and demanding when necessary. (Still, all limitations will be respected). While I love to guide, coax and encourage my sub in directions both new and exciting to her, I am not, however, resistant to using various creative and necessary 'behavioural motivation' when her perance is not up to expectation.
Nevertheless, I am not focused only on employing pain or punishment: my sub, my lady, is someone most precious to me, and when she pleases me, she is lovingly rewarded and pampered.
I desire to find a true lady of substance and stability (intellectually and emotionally): someone with whom I can share laughter, share secrets, and depend on - sincere, loyal, mature, honest, sensuous, witty, adventurous, naughty (at the appropriate times). As my submissive, she walks beside me, arm in arm - submissive, yes, but still my equal and 'counter-balance' in our magical relationship. She is not property or chattel to be owned (well, more or less...lol). What I ask of my sub is that she always looks for ways to please me and loves her successes, which is exactly what I will do for her in return.
I wish to clarify that D/s is just one facet of me and certainly not the axle around which my life revolves: my life is both regular and balanced, and I expect that my sub would wish to be a major part of and participant in that life. I would also hope she would want me to fill that same role in her life, too. While what we may share privately between us is thrilling, I would still ensure that her reputation in the 'vanilla world' is never compromised.
If this passage stirs your interests and your passions, then I invite you to write me. (oh, and YES I do have a vanilla picture to share as long as you also have one).  Cheers.
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