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Hi A little about me - "vanilla" me is a respectable(ish) mature guy in a responsible professional job, who enjoys socialising with friends, going to the odd gig, reading (rubbish - read far to much "serious" stuff for my job) seeking a long term committed relationship with a similar woman - and if that were all that actually would not be that hard to find - I am on this site in the hope of finding a woman that I can have a rounded relationship with who also matches my private kinky side. "kink-Me" I am very much into D/s and most aspects of BDSM I enjoy my D/s to be a subtle thing in public which nobody else would really pick up on - but with just that tiny tension there between us two. In private I enjoy the D/s more overt of course, and of course behind closed doors then almost every aspect of BDSM is to be enjoyed. One kink I think worth mentioning right up front as its not everyones "taste" is that although I AM looking for a committed loving relationship - you would have to accept that, within that relationship, you would be shared with others. Not nightly - not even weekly but you would be shared sexually within a D/s (not swinger) context - you might come home to a perfectly normal evening the majority of the time - but you would ALWAYS know on any night I may have invited "friends" around and if so you would be expected to serve them as directed. Of course we would discuss limits up front and I ALWAYS respect limits that have been agreed and in the above situation would make sure anyone who I allowed to play with you respected them - but I will not agree a limit of you not being shared at my direction so its only fair and proper to make that aspect clear up front. Also its important to understand I am NOT looking for poly, the emotional commitment would be between you and I in an emotionally exclusive loving relationship.... I will share your body not your mind or your emotions...... I hope there is someone out there who understands the difference ! Of course I enjoy all the other aspects of BDSM - and those we can discuss between ourselves and agree on once we are in contact :) I am not naive enough to think the person who "clicks" in both a vanilla and scene way will be easy to find quickly and whilst I am single of course I am happy to play - that's fun also on occasion, so if your circumstances mean you cant commit but you would like to play on the clear understanding that its no strings and only until I (or you) meet that special person, then that's fine too. FAQ section :) Yes I am genuine - please be genuine also and please don't ask questions that are answered in my profile :) Yes I am "single" - no sub / girlfriend / person I live with but we are just friends / almost divorced / wife who doesn't understand me ... single! This doesn't mean I wont date whilst I am single however - it means there is no one who thinks they are my girlfriend/wife/significant other - and if that were to change I will update my profile. No I don't want phone sex cyber sex or video sex with you - I am happy to use all of those things to chat and establish if we "click" but not for sex. Of course if we are in a real life relationship, but apart for some reason, then that "could" be different. Yes I have children - they don’t live with m but I love them and they are part of my life No - Really I am not going to write you a 3 page mini story detailing in graphic terms "what I am going to do to you". Firstly everyone is different and reacts differently so with the exception of a couple of activities you would have to enjoy (or "suffer") as they are very much my thing, what might happen would depend on the person. Secondly if you want porno short-stories there are far better writers on the web than I.