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I'd rather be whole than good.€ C.G. Jung.
First things first. I would have to like, respect and be turned on by you and you would have to like, respect and be turned on by me. No amount of BDSM paraphernalia can transcend a basic lack of connection and the trust that is needed to enter into these lovely, dark, sexual shadow zones we are all seeking.
Liking each other and making each other laugh at first meeting is a good sign. First kiss usually seals the deal.
With that basic connection and trust, will the sky is not quite the limit and part of the journey is finding those limits…and perhaps transcending them.
I’m fit, seen as handsome by most women, intelligent, articulate, and take the time to listen, which includes listening to what the expressions that play across your face and the tremors rippling through your body are telling me before acting.
And I’m looking for a woman that is similar and in her own feminine, submissive way compatible with the above. That is, attractive, intelligent, with some sense of your own style. You can be brainy, quirky and introverted with a head full of fantasies yet realized. On the other hand, you can be extroverted, out there, organized, and so in charge of your professional and personal life that you long to give up the burden of all that control, to finally lose your mind and come to your senses… and know that your need someone to help you do that. And then all the variations in between.
While I am into dominance and submission and varieties of that experience ...I am certainly open to other approaches to having fun in bed.
I’m not into one night stands and certainly open to a LTR but not really certain if this is the site or the time to be looking for that. If an extraordinary match occured...well, wouldn’t that be wonderful. But also willing to explore shades of dark wonderful to find the light. After that, as I said, the sky is not quite the limit.
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