I am active in my local kink community. Or rather, I was before the pandemic and I will be again. Watching other people play is a magical experience. To witness their playfulness, their intensity, the fear, aggression, comfort, tenderness, and artistry of a scene is beautiful. I've been lucky enough to play with some wonderful, skilled tops. I've even introduced new people to different types of play. I am enriched by every experience.

All of this has taught me a very important lesson about myself. Submission is a deeply intimate experience for me. When I bottom for someone that I am not connected to the drop is much harder. I can't give pieces of myself to people who don't want to keep them.

So I don't do casual play anymore. No impromptu scenes, no kink only arrangements, not even bottoming for someone who is learning. This is also why I don't do LDRs. The one I submit to must desire all of me. Not just the fun kinky parts. They need to be physically here so I can touch and be touched. That is super important to me. 

I know it's possible and I am a patient woman.

A number of people have messaged me saying that I don't look like a BBW. I'm not sure if this is meant to be a compliment or an accusation. Keep in mind that you have only two well crafted (IMO) pictures from which to judge. Also, BBW means different things to different people. I have zero interest in discussing the proper classification of my physical attributes, so if you message me to tell me that I don't look like a BBW I will not respond. Enjoy the pictures.