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You have your dominant space, you have your submissive space, for me, I have my writer space.

James M. Barrie is quoted in saying, "Life is a long lesson in humility".

Humility is a teacher to us all. It is the strength of character and ethics of person who walks in humility.

I checked the dominant female because I am doing research for a fiction novel. I like men only and I am not bi-sexual. If any dominant female wishes to chat and let me ask some questions I would greatly appreciate it. Same applies to the dominant male.

Now for any man out there, I need to state a few things. Having control over a woman in his bed is fine and mutually agreed upon by myself. Outside the bedroom he is a leader that is his service. If any man can’t see himself as a servant as much as the woman is, I have no time for you in my life personally. Submission is given in love and respect, just as much as Leadership is given in love and respect. Both are done out of servitude towards each other in humility.

My friends describe me as loyal, sweet, nieve at times, honest to a fault, and shy when it comes to men.

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8/31/2009 7:16:11 PM

The Pen and Sword

Have you ever wondered why some master’s want their subs/slaves to behave as the geisha do?

I have. The beauty and the grace of their movements take time to develop. It is a lifestyle as well as an art form. The simple gestures, the folding of clothes, the tea ceremonies, all the way to the art of holding a smile continually. The lengths of what service they are willing to perform and the dedication of performing them.

There are some truly admirable qualities that geisha have and well worth obtaining.

What about the master’s?

I have wondered about this flip side of this world. Geisha have been around as long as Samurai. True samurai in itself is an art form. To be a master of the pen and of the sword. The elegant dance that samurai learn maneuvers that are designed for protection, but have just as much beauty as a geisha does when she serves tea.

It is a well-designed dance when two learn the art forms and can value both equally as a whole when they become one.


7/22/2009 8:24:09 PM
Even as hard as lay offs can be with all the stress, the anxiety, the worry, the depression, the anger, the regret, and the feel of standing on the brink of the unknown of what to do next.  I was reminded today, that it is our choices that we make that set us apart and in the face of adversity it is where we actually show who we truely are inside.

I was a little depressed today about leaving the job I have had for over six years.  The past few days haven't been the most easy or the most pleseant either. 

I couldn't help but wonder at my boss today, I was in her office and she told me that I amazed her.  I asked her why.  She said she had never seen anyone stand up and go to the lengths I am going to with my job, even though I know I will be leaving it in a few short weeks.  That what I am putting in place for them, will help the company and expand things in the years to come, and I am still doing it, even though, I didn't have to. 

I absolutly love it when I can make an impact on someone's life in a way that really see who I am and what I can really do when I am faced with a challenge that future is unclear in where I am going. 

Like I told my boss, this who I am, this is what I do, I can't be someone I am not.

7/16/2009 6:38:05 PM
On the search for things that my son can blow up.  LOL.  He's a nut.  Ended up getting him one of those Mythbusters kits today and now he wants to blow things up.  LMAO.

I had to say no to the homemade vomit, was not gonna happen.  Not making that at all.

7/14/2009 12:01:48 PM
Lay offs suck.  They absolutely are totally shitty.  My last day of work will be 9-11.  How ironic can life really be?  LMAO.  I actually laughed when my director told me.  Been through one of these things before, which that one happened right after 9-11.

Well, now I guess I get to broaden my horizons.     

7/10/2009 5:21:12 PM
  I hate headaches.  I hate that constant pressure of no release, no way of making it go away because nothing is working. 

6/30/2009 2:23:03 AM

Prevailing hope is a struggle for the mountain. Majestic, unmovable it stands as a beacon of life’s great conquest. Insurmountable, though it may be, can be reduced by one pebble at a time. Life is full of mountains that seem impossible to overcome. Next time when you stand in front of your mountain, look down and find a pebble, that is the first piece of that hopeless climb.


6/23/2009 6:35:11 PM
A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort.

Try smiling and see how many people scowl back at you.

6/17/2009 7:10:13 PM

 "In the master there is a servant, in the servant a master." Rome's greatest politician said that, Cicero.

Politician's are always talking out both sides of their mouth.  In Cicero's case, at least with the quote above, he spoke a profound truth.  It is the opposite's that are attracted, with the mirror reflections of strength and weaknesses in each.

Before anyone flames me, take a deep breath, let it out slowly, and reflect on what I actually said and don't read between lines.

Life is the key to happiness, one just has to find the door.
 


6/11/2009 9:35:00 PM

Manners require time, as nothing is more vulgar than haste.

With all the rushing around in the world today, all the instant things that are at your finger tips, it is a wonder that there are still manners around.

It only takes a moment to brighten someone's day, a simple 'Thank you' sometimes is all it takes.


6/9/2009 8:12:27 PM
Curiosity killed the cat.

Good thing I'm not a cat, I'd die a thousand deaths each day.

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 Age: 33
 Elm, New Jersey