WARNING To any and all institutions/university's/individuals or any associates using this site for any projects/surveys/studies or any of the like: You DO NOT have permission to use any photo's current past or present, Quotes, or anything else off of my profile. If you are found using or have any of the above mentioned you will be considered a violation of my personal privacy and will be dealt with to the FULL legal extent of the law**1: PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE! DO NOT send a friend request with out messaging me..unless I know you or have messaged you first!!!!!!!!!!!!! ANY FAILURES WILL BE BLOCKED AND OR IGNORED UNTIL THIS RULE IS FOLLOWED 2:Do you have a photo of yourself? A: why yes I do thank you for asking..pay attention and look!
Who I am I suppose is a matter of no importance..what I am seeking..is nothing more than just friends..just people to talk to to share ideas and to learn of peoples ideas and the way we think..
Due to an epiphany I had this morning I have come to realize that even though I thought my life was at a calm point where I could reach out and meet new people and make new friends I have realized that if anything it was a calm before a massive storm of change. My wants and needs have changed so suddenly that I am left to do nothing more than contemplate them at this moment. Of course with this change I have also realized that actions of mine have been unfair to some people I have met and have attempted to become friends with and all I can do is apologize as gracefully as possible and hope to move on with my own life. With the new and crazy life I am currently living I am under obligations that cannot be mitigated or circumnavigated, nor do I wish to.
At this point I only seek friends to speak with on line through messages with no undue promises of actions of meetings or encounters of any type out side of online. Of course there are many who will not understand this and become offended but I realize that this is the best choice for myself. Dont like it? well do yourself a favor and piss off. If you prove patient enough and understanding enough I might be able to do coffee or something
I am a 23 year old male dominate, I work in Law Enforcement with ties to the military. What does that mean? That means that I can have a full blown conversation with most military members and have many acronyms thrown at me, weapon names tactical approaches and other misc military lingo tossed at me and not stop to ask what that means. I honestly am open to most things out side of scat, water sports and animals. Other fetishes...well I believe i can handle most..so far.
I am straight so gentlemen/gentleman ladies, please as I am open to friendship do not ask me to date/dom/control you..not gonna happen in the first message.
I have come to learn that being a dom is not just about going oh this is mine it must do what I say. I have realized that subs, slaves what ever you call them are living breathing things that come across change quickly and have needs that will never be met. They have moods needs and wants that will always be changing in situations that may never be fair. My personal idea of they are just around to please me..are not the same anymore.. I have come to learn that along with being a dom I am also a guide..I enjoy the forceful encounter but at the same time I also enjoy the act of protecting..the act of guiding and teaching not just about fetishes but about life itself.
I am heavily into music mostly within Metal/Rock/Techno/Trance/Classical..or some sort of sub category. I am a Druid who also tends to lean towards the dark side of things (or as most of you would say...goth) who is open minded and protective of my own. I see myself as a sword and as a shield..usually putting myself at odds unbelieved by many.
Anyways take it easy.
8/2/2013 9:12:56 AM
After a looooooonnnngggggg break I have gotten bored and decided to peruse around a bit....we will see how long this lasts before I decide to finally delete this account..
6/9/2010 5:19:05 PM
So randomly I have been browsing ...just because I have had no other way to entertain myself that is appealing anymore
Oddly enough after I moved from AZ I find all these people in AZ...i am like WtF seriously? Why my luck xD but yea i thought it was funny. I have been contemplating going and starting a pro on ..not many subs or people i find interesting in my area much to my sadness..lol I will probably still keep collar me so if some one randomly wants to message me they can ..well Ta
5/30/2010 1:26:43 AM
its irritating that I can go and look through all these profiles and know that a lot of them..are bots..fakes..whether it be by the text of the profile or the pictures.. It sucks that it is so hard to find some one to have a good conversation with because most of them are fake..
4/17/2010 8:00:18 PM
I am starting to wonder if this site is even worth it any more..I mean..yea i've talked to a great few people..but its like i log on every day for ...nothing...
4/8/2010 11:22:09 PM
So, I guess I shall use this journal to further try and explain who i am...
I am a man of respect.. I will respect you if you respect me. Its simple really, as long as you have some form of intelligence at least.
I dont take to threats well...if your going to say your going to come and beat my arse or fight me in some form... Be a man about it and come and get me and dont be a weakling about it and bring your homies/gang/brother or any one.
I am not a grammar nazi, but If you come at me messaging me like this: "Hy whts up u r de sxyist dude evur" Dont expect me to message you back.
I am generally a friendly person. I am open minded and I welcome every one to pm me and get to know me or ask me questions. It doesnt bother me, as long as your nice and friendly and respectful I will probably message you back.
I am an avid video gamer, I just recently beat Kingdom Hearts and I loved it. I play runescape religiously and am co leader of a clan.
I'll probably add more eventually. But this will suffice for now.
