I think before one searches for another they must first find themselves. We base our search for another on desires, needs and qualities that we want fulfilled and sometimes find missing in our own lives. How can we know what we want with out first knowing what we have.

I am a strong but quite person, I first rely upon myself before reaching to others. An independence that was bestilled in me from childhood. If my convictions are good, there is no limit that I will go to see something through to the end.

I have an order for things in my life and do not like chaos, however order and chaos is my ying/yang. You can not have one without the other so I do except the chaos that presents itself in my life as an opportunity to create order from it.

I do not like lies and mistruths and require the same from another and friends. There is enough games to be played in life without having to play one at home also. So just keep it simple and honest.

I am Dominate that can live vanilla, play the lifestyle, and blend the two together when permissible. My choice for a partner would have an independence to her but yet have the need to submit to an authoritarian figure. I do not like to play head games and I am not looking to get inside someones head and change the things that makes them who they are. I am not searching for a puppet. I would rather accept someone for what and who they are and have that person fill my emptiness with their qualities and strengths, then grow together as a Dom/sub couple. Do not be confused though, even though I seek independence in a person it is still a Dominate/submissive lifestyle I wish to live and be a part of.

Bondage and discipline is my passion. I like to bring real life into scene/play for control and punishment. Sexual torment and control mixed with pain and pleasure are the methods that I like to use to train and discipline a submissive. I like to be creative in scene/play and bring new toys and ideas into play as much as possible.

For a submisve I would require that my word is final in all matters. I will share input from each other but my decesion must be followed. My needs are few but my lust and passion for the lifestyle I choose can be demanding. A submissive must show respect to her Dom and in return a respect is given back to her.

I would like to chat with people of like desires and make some new friends. So feel free to drop me a message if you like.

Thank you for taking the time to view and read my profile. I hope there was something of interest here for you. I wish you happiness and luck in your efforts to find that which you seek.

ShadowsHeart