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Hetero Female Submissive, 36,  Suburbia, Connecticut
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Shadoweylady35 - submissive

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 Submissive Female



 5' 4"

 220 lbs



 African Descent



Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

Friends Only

 Lives For:

 Shopping (Expert)




 Puzzle Games

 Romance Novels



 Gymnastics (Beginner)


 Hair Pulling

 Massage (Getting)


 Comedy Shows


 TV Sports

 Web Surfing





 Alternative Music

 Hip Hop Music

 Nineties Music




 Rock Music



 Amusement Parks

 Bar Hopping


 Coffee Shops


 Renaissance Faires


 Martial Arts

 Bondage (Beginner)

 Breast Play

 Corsets (Beginner)

 Arcade Games

 Board Games

 Card Games






 Liberal Politics


 Lifestyle BDSM

 Classical Music

 Eighties Music


 Heavy Metal Music


 Pop Music


 Seventies Music





 Art Galleries (Beginner)

 Fine Dining

 Flea Markets

 Gambling (Beginner)

 Garage Sales


 Pilates (Beginner)


 Anal Play (Beginner)



 Curious About:

 Blindfolds (Beginner)

 Body Worship


 Medical Play


 Orgasm Denial

 Role Playing

 Sensory Deprivation


 Wax play


 1950s Household


 Bird Watching


 Camping (Beginner)



 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Foot Worship



 Knife Play

 Needle Play

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Speech Restrictions


 Low Carb






 Horror Movies

 Diet and Exercise

 Gorean Lifestyle



 Hard Limits:



 Domestic Servants

 Fire Play


 Gas Masks


 Mental Bondage





I am not as new as I was, but Im no seasoned vet either. I love to be spanked, and when I trust you enough restrained. I have other curiosities but Id rather you asked me about them yourself. My hope is to find someone who is looking for something long term and monogamous.

So I need to make it clear, I AM NOT LOOKING FOR OPEN RELATIONSHIPS OR POLY RELATIONSHIPS. I AM NOT GOING TO RELOCATE. I DO NOT WANT A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP. I DO NOT WANT AN ONLINE RELATIONSHIP. I also am not looking to turn myself into a fuck toy, bimbo, or slut for your pleasure. I am a princess and expect to be treated as such. I am not interested in anyone old enough to be my father, no daddy issues here. Also if you are married, engaged or in a relationship with someone who believes you to be exclusiveseriousmonogamous please dont message me. I never learned to share and Im not going to start now.

My hard limits include but are not limited to scat, watersports, blood play, extreme breath play, race play, hoods, masks, cages, chastity belts, swinging, swapping, and fisting. (I reserve the right to add or subtract from this list at any time).

My ideal man, is within driving distance of Danbury (but I am open to reasonable long distance), and between 30-45. Race does not matter but how you treat me and talk to me does. Lust is easy, seduce my mind. I need honesty and trust, and in return I might submit to you. I am strong-willed, stubborn, and very independent.

In my free time I love to read, bake and make all sorts of crafts. I also love cartoons and video games (mostly puzzle type games). I love to play in makeup, both pretty and sfx, and I love to paint my nails. I have pink hair, tattoos and piercings. No I do not identify as a little or a middle. Like I said Im a princess and yes I do wear headbands that look like crowns.

If you would like to know more about me, please just ask.

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Journal Entries:
3/21/2018 4:20:19 PM
What I'm looking for Since I'm trying again, it's probably a good idea to make a list of what I do and don't want. 1. A monogamous relationship. If you are poly, think poly is something you might want to try, have poly fantasies, I AM NOT FOR YOU! I have issues with jealousy, abandonment and insecurity. I cannot handle sharing, AT ALL. 2. A patient person, my issues make it difficult to trust, so it will take time before I believe that you really want me or will stay with me. I will be a brat in the beginning; a needy, attention seeking, pain in the butt. But when I do trust you, I will be the most loyal person you ever meet. 3. Someone who stands by what they say. This one is multifaceted, I abhor liars and I also need someone who will keep me in line. 4. Structure. Idk if I want a true TPE, but I need tasks and a schedule. I get lonely very easily and having something to do helps quite a bit. Rules are also helpful for me. 5. Someone I can be myself with. The are many facets to my personality, and I hate to be pigeonholed into being one thing. I hateto be stifled also, if you are looking for someone to sit and look pretty, I'm not for you. I'm sure I will keep adding to this but this is good for starters.

3/4/2018 5:09:48 PM
Thank you to everyone who has stopped by to wish me well, and offer virtual hugs and kisses. It has officially been 2 weeks, but I still find myself picking up my phone to text him or expecting the texts I receive to be a message from him. I feel like a piece of me is missing and I have been crying myself to sleep. I keep wondering what happened and how did we get to this point. That being said, to all the guys out there who think I'll be an easy target for a quick lay, please think again. Don't try to manipulate my situation. I'm not looking for a play partner, I have one. I am looking for someone who I can grow old with... who happens to want to spank me regularly. But, it will take some time before I'm ready to enter into something new. I still love Milord, despite him breaking my heart, so I cannot open my heart to someone new right now. Give me some time. Please and thank you.

3/2/2018 3:24:58 AM
So Milord is gone. My best friend, confidant and lover, decided to tell me that he's been lying for 8 months and he left. How does someone go from being your perfect person to nothing in the span of 2 minutes? He was my everything and now I feel empty and lost. ***To the predators out there, do not take this as an invitation to take advantage of my emotions. I'm sad not stupid*** To the "real" doms out there, what do you expect subs to do when you release them with no explanation? Because I can tell you my world is upside down. I'm no longer accountable for my actions, I have no one to ask permission from, I have no one to talk about my day with. What is my purpose? That all being said, I am looking for someone new, but it will take time. I know what I'm looking for, but I have to be super cautious for my own well being. If you message me and I'm standoffish, don't take it personally. I'm just protecting myself. Get to know me, I think I'm a great person lol.

6/2/2017 2:41:05 PM
I swear there is something about me that attracts men just looking to lie to me. Please don't feed me bullshit and tell me its chocolate (yes I know what the real saying is). Why do all of the work of getting me to trust you, only to disappear? If it is just pics you are after, say so up front. If I'm feeling like an exhibitionist that day, then I will be open to trading. I want real, honest, and open. Otherwise fuck off and leave me alone! *yes I have a potty mouth when I'm mad, and if it earns me a spanking so be it 😈😠😡😢

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