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I am a 36yo married dom. My wonderful wife is fully aware of and supports my pursuits. I am seeking a submissive of my own, who can match me darkness to darkness, who can celebrate truly our shadowed hearts. My girl will need to mesh well with the rest of my household as well, as we intend fully to allow our poly life to continue to grow as feels appropriate. Ideally, I am looking for someone who will live with us, be a part of all of our lives, share day to day joys, struggles, pleasures and pain with me.
I see many "submissives" or "slaves" on this site who claim to be looking for 24/7 TPE and are seeking a master who will care for all of their needs. Any submissive or slave under the impression that this is how things work is sadly mistaken. A submissive or slave should care for their master's needs. (I don't mean financial here.) But no person can truly be capable of caring for another's needs if they can't first provide for their own. A good girl should bring value into a household. She should not be a burden who expects to have everything provided in return for simply offering her body. The relationship must be a partnership on many levels. My girl will know she is valuable in and of herself, strong and capable of surviving totally on her own. It is the gift of submission from such a fantastic woman that is truly a blessing to be enjoyed and cherished.
The Master's responsibilities are to protect, nurture, instruct and guide, as well as to respect and cherish. If you seek a worthy Master, be sincere enough to be worthy yourself, please.
On non-fetish matters, I am an avid reader, as well as a big fan of television and movies. I love spirited conversations about almost any topic and rarely pass up the opportunity to learn something new. I do have children who live with me, so matters are more restrained in the presence of the children of course.
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