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ShadowSiren

I'm a 39 year old single mom of two teenagers. I'm at a point in my life where I can go do things now and not worry about the kids (I've rarely used a babysitter). I want to meet .. an honest man, a man who is honest with me, and with himself. I don’t play games, and I won’t put up with a man who does.

I’m not sure what I’m looking for as far as a relationship goes. I’ve been single for 2 years; the first time I’ve been single since age 17. I love it. Yet, I sometimes miss a partner. I suppose I’m just open to most anything; except becoming involved with a married man or a couple.

I don’t want a switch. I love the mentality of a naturally dominant man. I don’t want to be micro-managed. I know how to run my life. I don’t need to be dominated constantly. Everything important in being dominated is mental anyway. The rest of it s just fun, great fun to be sure, but without the mental aspect, it isn’t going to keep my interest for long.

I am drawn to confident, assertive men who need to have mental control, subtle, always there. I love the Daddy/Daughter dynamic but I admit it is hard to feel it with most men. I like men physically larger and older; this could by why I seek that. Just to throw it out there, I’m not damaged or abused; I just know what I need.

This is hard to explain; I need to feel various ranges of intimidation.. physically, intellectually .. like at any moment things can turn upside down. I mean this in all ways, not just sexually. I like to feel .. lesser. Not sure that's the right word, but it will do.
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 Age: 22
 Northern Ireland, United Kingdom