NB: Please read this BEFORE writing to me. I am not interested in cyber or long distance relationships. Oh... and I don't "do" chat.

Writing a one liner is also a no brainer as is cutting and pasting from your profile and wank-writing.

Adhere to these guidelines and you will get a reply. Don't and you won't.

I write, I read. I enjoy cooking, music, films, London Walks, travelling, good food, wine and company. I'm an outgoing introvert, a romantic cynic and a pragmatic idealist with an absurd and mordant sense of humour.

I'm bisexual and polyamorous. I've known I was the former for years but the latter is a relatively recent self-discovery. I'm a BBW - but don't let that be your reason for contacting me. If you don't understand what I mean then chances are we won't connect.

I'm single, but involved in with three people. One is a long standing, long distance love affair on all levels. One is very intermittent due to matters outside my control (damn, the world isn't ordered just as I like ;), the third, much newer, is a more traditional domestic service based relationship. Though each relationship is exclusive, my partners know of the others. I wouldn't have it any other way. So if you are interested in getting to know me, bear in mind that I have no secrets and I expect reciprocal honesty.

I am not looking for 24/7 but I would like a submissive(s) who is available to attend munches, events and clubs with me on a regular basis as well as be my companion in off the scene activities as well. Therefore you should be single or in an open relationship that allows you to spend some weekends away from your primary partner and reasonably local or able to travel regularly.

I would be very interested in becoming the Mistress of a submissive couple - m/f, f/f or m/m - sexual orientation is irrelevent to me if the "spark" is there.

In order to interest me enough to invest time in finding out whether there is a "spark" you are likely to be self confident, intelligent and self aware. I don't want the submission of someone I don't respect - I'm worth more than that and my sub must be as well.

I don't expect you to share all my interests but some compatibility on a vanilla level is a good starting point!

I do expect you to be honest, emotionally mature and able to commit comfortably to someone who is polyamorous.

If you want to know more then you'll have to email me. See the note at the beginning of my profile before you do write to me though!