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	looking to make new friends over time that i can talk to. i want to get into the scene more go to the clubs more often with others not on my own. want to meet others more around my age if i can i wish learn new things there is still so much that i havent had a chance to try out and all the while i want to have a little fun while im at it. not looking for anything on line or long distance i want real life not a few words on a screen or only anything over the phone i will not put up with lies or being played around being honest will get you further with me then being fake. if you want to get to know me talk to me i may have evil ideas from time to time but im sure i could talk you into liking them

11/27/2008 3:35:03 AM

been a while. been more then a fair while but been up for the last few hours with nothing to do just one of those nights were you go for one thing to the other but your really bored with it all and cant be bothered paying any attention. must be the heat. i shouldnt be this hot for no reason and with no effort lol. there goes my dirty mind once again. regardless of all that i have lost my play toy of the last few months or rather we had a falling out as these things tend to happen im not going to go into a sob story because i feel now i am truly over it and ready to move on get back into the game. a kinky one if i have my way about it "grins". so thats what im looking for a no strings attached fun time . get to know someone i dont just jump into bed with randoms, willing to meet others at the clubs or parties and so on guys and girls my age or older i dont mind so long as they are willing ive learnt alot more over the last few months and once more really into my rope work want to keep doing that if i can. and cant forget the fantasys had one in my mind for a while now maybe next time im on ill give details

2/16/2008 10:59:16 PM

Another rant but another real question that never seems to have an answer why do so many people place so much emphasis on looks is it really that god damn important or is it people are just that god damn shallow I talk to so many and at once its “what do you look like” or it’s the “can I see a pic” I see the one line answers pop up and think until seen I still have no idea what the hell you look like you can tell me how tall you are what colour your eyes skin and hair are but it doesn’t give me anything and yet most say “that’s hot you sound great” its crap they have a fantasy image they just built up and once they do see you it’s a let down because your nothing like what they imagined

I wonder why it matters at all will it really change how you feel if I put a blind fold on you so that you never see me, will it change how you will react when I do something will you react more if your sexually attracted to the other person or do you think you will react less what if sex is not involved at all I know many who play the Dom stays clothed the whole time in order to keep that dominance over there sub just that little bit more control over the situation its so simple but it can have a big impact when done right just like with anything when done right it will get a reaction which brings me back to my point if you do things right and get a reaction regardless of if its good or bad why do looks matter???

8/8/2007 4:54:26 PM

new entry

question for any who want to answer when is pushing someone going to far?
as i see it most of the time they want it even as they say no its something they need and like to get into the right head space
they need someone strong enough to push them to a point and past it regardless of what they say but how do you know when it really has gone to far
even if you have been with your sub for years you know there reactions and limits it could be they have had a bad day or some other small factor has come into play that makes them more sensative and as such unable to keep going as far as they usualy would at other times
it makes me wonder about quite a few things about people and what they can do there reactions how they can differ from one time to the next

7/24/2007 7:07:06 AM

what is with the unrealistic expectations some people set out with!

its hard enough to find people to get along with why add to that? Cant this just be a bit of fun and leave it at that. if more comes of it that’s great it could be what you want but going into it from the start that’s not easy

like me I’m relaxed a calm person it takes alot to get me angry, I like to talk to others and hope others see it as easy to talk to me in return. No I’m not full on right from the start why is it some think that every time they talk to me I’m going to just jump right in and punish then for saying hello

its fine to act submissive but with no stimulation just sitting there like an object means ill treat you like one ill get bored with you put you aside to gather dust while I search for someone who will give as much as they hope to get back not just leave it all up to me

control is fun its what I like to have but I also like to see that the person I am playing with is enjoying themselves as much as I am if I get no reaction then what was the point we both walk away disappointed and unwilling to go at it a second time to see that they are enjoying themselves takes communication

I need to know likes and limits yes ill push both but to not know them in the first place means I’m left with nothing to go on other then what I can come up and being told no im not into that before I’m going to start something isn’t fun

that’s not how it all works if you want that go and pay for a pro they could care less. they will do there thing use you from the start and forget about you as soon as they get paid there you go you have been fucked over ! how many really smile about that once I’ve stated it so blandly it’s a cheap thrill and you only realise that once you have come down off your little high

maybe what I’m asking for ill never get ill keep looking though until I do I am demanding that way after all

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DomAlliKat

Age: 31

Warner Robins, Georgia