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sassysheila
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Seeking a second submissive / slave as I and my current submissive (who is 45 yrs old, 42dd bust size) are poly. I would prefer she be bisexual (but flexible) as all three of may be together in play and in this relationship.
I am a Dom who loves treating his girls special, as he loves being treated like King.
I enjoy having my submissive cuddle with me . I have a wide interest in many aspects of the lifestyle and would love to get to know you. To me, the lifestyle is more a matter of the mind, an exchange, and then the body shall follow.Protocol is important to me.
she would a friend, a lover, a confident, both in the lifestyle and the vanilla world. Someone to be with, through good and through bad. My golden rule is - Never, ever, go to bed angry - discuss the issues that may exist before, not letting the bad feelings fester inside.
I judge a person by their mind , their heart and their soul. Those are things that make us who we are. While I am firm with my requirements, I do care for my girl, making sure she is cared for , happy content. She has given me a gift, her submission, to cherish and I will not take that for granted but rather nurture it into full bloom.
I am, at the heart, a Daddy Dom. I like many aspects of the lifestyle, I love to give pain with my floggers, crops and paddles but not into severe pain, scat, watersports, animals or kids. I do love to spank, flog, paddle and tie up my girl. I also love to play sexually with my girl and very much enjoy giving pleasure as much as receiving it, and love to give oral.
I have never looked for a fling, a one-nighter or anything like that. So if that is your type, please move on to someone else.
I am a patient Dom, one who will nurture his pet and try and bring out the best in her. I wish to capture her mind (which is the key to all), body and soul.
I have been in the lifestyle for over 23 years now.
I am one who fits as well into the lifestyle as in the vanilla world so family and work functions/parties are never an issue.
I have my #1 girl in my life (married) and we are now looking for a bi-female to be our #2. She should have a sense of herself, sense of humor, enjoy the community, and enjoy playing with a female.
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It's amazing how what people say they want and reality are two different things. They say they want lots if experience but be extremely young (sorry, they don't go together) or say they are submissive while stating I want, I want, I want. How about stating your limits and then saying the rest will be negotiated, the way it is meant to be. |
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I am on an ongoing journey to put forth my thoughts and observations. Today I was thinking about how many people push aside doing the right thing, the honorable thing, the morally correct course of action, merely so as not to tarnish their popularity. Are we in high school where our self esteem hinges so closely on the level of popularity? Unfortunately, I see far to often actions that appear just like that.
I say be able to have a clear conscience, be able to live with your choices and smile that you did the right thing. |
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Sitting here and pondering, reflecting, I realize how many people ignore the fact their actions affect others . Treat others with disrespect and you too will be disrespected. Profess to be one thing yet your actions clearly show otherwise, people will notice, if not now then over time. You want to dispense drama, drama will certainly search you out.
Life is not a one way stream of words and actions but rather complex interactions that many seem to forget.
Just a rambling for the day. |
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Here is something I have a hard time understanding. People joining the site and then one day, after having held conversations, disappear without notice. When did courtesy get dropped in people's suitcase of skills? |
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There are two main areas I stress to new submissives and slaves entering into the lifestyle, things that younger ones don't always understand. The first is protocol - how Dominants and submissives should interact, the "etiquette and rules" if you will. The other is safe, sane and consensual. Always, no exceptions. |
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Don't forget one important thing - HAVE FUN! Some people are so damn serious. They think you have to, for example, play a specific genre of music during a scene. Hell no. Enjoy yourself, make the music move you, whatever it may be. :) |
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You can tell the difference between someone who IS submssive or Dominant vs someone who acts submissive or Dominant. The difference is between those who simply are that way and live that way vs those that pretend and wish they were. Don't think you can pretend and fool people. |
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There really are no good lifestyle meeting sites it seems. People's profiles are either spam profiles, wannabe's profiles or people with completely unrealistic expectations. Very discouraging. |
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I really wonder, are people afraid of a relationship these days? |
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Scammers. Seem to be popping up here more and more. The most recent was the best-a 30 year old Lesbian Trans female who weighs 35 lbs lol....riggghhttt. Says loved my profile (and no evidence of profile being viewed). How many red flags was that already? Lol |
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The Pettiness of People
It's amazing to me how some people think that if it's in their mind, it must be real and proceed to blame everyone else for their delusions LOL. Such is the life of petty deluded people I suppose.
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I had to post this as it is so perfect and true. The link I got it from is http://dungeonmyst.tripod.com/mastercreed1.html, entitled "The Master's Creed":
We are not equal. We are halves of a whole. We complement each other and make each other complete. My desire to dominate you is instinctive. It is not to degrade you nor is it degrading to you because you are secure in being totally feminine. We each recognize and accept our worth, and our need for someone to trust and fulfill our needs.
You are sure, strong, and proud in your womanhood. You do not submit as acceptance of inferiority, but from strength and passion. You expect a man to stand strong and be a man. You desire and flourish in the strength and control of a man. In return you present control of your body, unqualified trust and honesty, and the faithfulness of your heart. You submit because I have earned your trust. Because I have opened my heart and soul to you. Because I have listened to your word with my ears and heart and have learned to anticipate your needs and emotions. And because I have proven worthy in your eyes, you have given me the only true treasure of life; you have given me dominance over you.
What you give is not abnormal, but pure, natural, and the rarest gift a woman can give a man. You have given me complete and unshakable assurance of your commitment to be. Your submissiveness is a magnificent gift and sacred responsibility. I accept this from you with humility and joy. I understand the rarity and purity of this gift. I recognize it is your body, mind, and soul. I dominate you only because you have allowed me to, and when I see your body kneel before me in my mind and heart, you are raised above all other women and all the treasures of the earth.
Within the bounds of our relationship...it is my duty to protect you, and that you will know, that under my care; NO harm will come to you as a result of actions taken by Me..or you.
That is my responsibility, to protect you..from yourself if necessary.
What you give freely cannot in reality be bought.
Author Unknown
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Well, I went to a concert last night and was the first time I had been to Joe Louis Arena in Detroit. It was also the last time I ever go to that arena for a concert LOL. Give me the wonderful acoustics at the Palace or Pine Knob any day. The concert was Nickelback, Staind and Daughtry. Due the acoustics, about the only act you could understand the words from was Daughtry (about 75%). Could understand o% of staind and mayne 33% of Nickelback. Oh, well. It was still an enjoyable experience, even with my ears still ringing LOL
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Chapter 1 - The Meeting
They had “met” while online several months earlier. Neither of them had expected much given their history of finding a lot of fakes online, claiming to be true submissives and true Dominants yet they only played that way, it wasn’t something that they were, something deep into the core of their being. The two had taken their time getting to know each other online for sometime, chatting almost every day, both on their messenger as well as, eventually, on the telephone. As time went on, it appeared to each of them that they had found their true match, what each had been longing for in some time. He saw in her the deep longing to belong to the right Dominant, the love that she had in her, that she was submissive and not just acting submissive. She saw in Him the strength that she so desired, that he was forthright and honest to her, someone she could place her trust in.
As the winter turned into spring and it had been a long time in the making, they decided that it was time to meet. He insisted upon meeting in a public place for their first meeting and the met at a Starbucks that was equidistant from each of them. Pictures had been exchanged long ago so there was no fear of either one of them not recognizing the other. As it happened, both pulled into the parking lot at the same time, their heads turning to see each other and a big smile crossing both of their lips. They got out of their cars and slowly walked towards each other. As they got closer, he walked a little faster and simply pulled her into his arms, hugging her close to his body, she snuggling into his arms.
“Why don’t we go inside, my pet, and have a seat so we can talk some more,” he said looking deep into her eyes with his piercing blue eyes. He held out his hand for her and she gladly accepted as they walked in. They sought out the table in the corner where the light was a little dimmer so that they could have some privacy to talk freely. As she came back with their coffee’s, she smiled at him.
“Your coffee, Sir.”, she said, carefully placing the coffee on a napkin to the right of his hand.
“Thank you precious,” he replied, picking it up and taking a long sip.
While neither one were ever at a loss for words, at this moment neither of them spoke. Not that they needed words but rather that words were completely unnecessary. Their eyes, focused upon each other, spoke novels worth. The expressions on their faces merely added punctuation to the sentences spoken by their eyes. She slowly moved her hand to the middle of the table and said to him “May I?” He took her hands into his and they continued the momentary silence, lost in space and time in each other.
… to be continued
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I have decided to begin writing a story here. We shall see how it goes hehe
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The Gift
Whether in this lifestyle or in vanilla life, everyone is different. In this lifestyle, however, I see many look at submissives' submission as a given, but it is not. It is a gift that they have given us, a gift to be thankful for and to cherish. They have trusted us with their well being so it is our responsibility to live up to that challenge and that privilege. In exchange, they give us all that they have, their love, their minds, their bodies, their heart. I think sometimes that everyone needs a reminder of that.
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A submissive friend of mine gave me a wonderful compliment - said I was cute, funny and honest that I must get a lot of emails. Sad thing is, if I get one email every month on here that's a busy time. *checks for warts or body odor...nope*
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Looking outside my back porch, smiling at what a beautiful day it is, a day to go out and enjoy the pleasantly warm weather and sunshine. hmm...mini-golf maybe hehe
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OK, must have been a long day because I need to rant a bit. We all lead busy lives and all but that doesn't mean common courtesy should go out the window. If someone writes me an email, I respond, even if it is only brief. Yet I see so many who don't have the courtesy to even say thanks for the message or anything.
OK, leaving my soapbox now LOL
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Well, I am proud to say, I have now completed 7 weeks of being a non-smoker and it's actually been going quite well. I recognized it is an addiction and since I don't like giving up control (nooo, you don't say LOL), I had to take control back :)
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Well, I decided that it was time to start making some entries here. It seems very hard these days to find a submissive who understands how much a Dom (myself) cherish's her gift of submission and does not take that gift for granted. It seems that a lot of submissives have been hurt from past experiences and that's a shame, or simply they are not sure what they are really looking for. Suppose I am just rambling here lol.
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| Age: 28 |
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New York |
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