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I'm a 39 y/o switch woman, interested in lifestyle discussion with like minded people.
On the dominant side, I can say that I do not suffer fools gladly. I don't get into nonsense, or drama. Nor do I play in an unsafe manner. Nothing will get a bottom into trouble faster with me, than their going the route of 'doormat' with me.
I expect as a domina, that I will have to earn the trust and respect of a partner, and that I will have to guard the trust the is placed in me very well, by not violating or taking it for granted.
On the submissive side, I'm much the same way. No silly games, and the only prayer any dominant has, of getting my respect and keeping it, is to earn it, and to earn my trust.
This is a continuous process.
I have pretty much, what I wish in life, as far as relationships go. I have no desire to try to engage in a relationship with another, nor to play with others.
However, I do enjoy good conversation and exchange of ideas and knowledge, in the fine arts encompassed within the BDSM community. If you are looking for the same... drop me a line.*s* As a note to submissives... in correspondance, just speak to me in normal conversational convention. Leave the protocol in the play room.
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Just updated my profile, and cleaned out my mailbox.
Most of the mailbox entries are, as one might expect, HNG's ostenibly looking for the 'instant coffee' type power exchange relationship.
I understand, courtesy of porn movies and sterotyping that some think, the submissive shows up, kneels down, and boom! Everyone's off to the races.
Folks, especially you guys who are 'honestly' not active in the BDSM community... It doesn't work that way.
For those looking to garner my positive attention, (and therefore, any attention at all BESIDES my delete button), take a page from the book of common sense please, and just FORGET that I'm into BDSM, and try approaching me as a human being.
I had one recent inquiry that did JUST that, and frankly, it'll be a pleasure to return the favor to the gentleman once I've prepared my reply to him.
I'm only into a little bit of correspondance here. Discussion. I've got all I want otherwise, between r/t relationships and one v/t one that's been quite wonderful and strong for almost 8 years now.
So if you're into intelligent discussion about the lifestyle, and issues we face pertaining to it, great... fire away.
If you're looking for 'the hookup' to borrow a slang term... then you can save your typing fingers some effort, and my mouse button's ability to find the delete button, some wear and tear, by writing someone besides me.
Best regards, and if you've recently sent me a message, just a heads up, I should be replying to the one message that made the grade, before the end of the week.
Be safe out there.
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Color my profile UPDATED.*s* |
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