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shadesofgr


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	I have a submissive heart and love to please that special someone. I am a strong sub who speaks her mind and have been independent for awhile. So, if you are looking for a doormat, please move on. Have not actively been in the "lifestyle" but have been in relationships with Dominant men. Would love to explore it more. Only interested in a monogamous relationship and not into only sex (although sex is very important!). There is more to D/s than that. A vanilla relationship with a twist of kink so to speak. I will NOT respond to messages with humiliation, sadistic pain or anything but respect. Respect is mutual. A strong sub needs a Dom to gently guide her, not push her along His path. (at least this one does) To learn each others ways is the beginning. To accept me the way i am and not try to change me but bring out the best in me so we are both happy. A gentle Dom will make my heart melt (in time) but any other will make me fight and run. I can take care of myself but I choose to allow that special One to take me to new heights. My kind of Dom would be sensual, soft, nurturing, kind, gentle yet firm, understanding and VERY patient since i am used to being independent. He will take the time to know me as i would Him. Have a sense of humor, after all, it's not all about being tied up...lol...Build the trust in each other and it could be very magical joining souls. Take me on that journey with You. I am a BBW so if that's not your taste, please move on...

3/5/2014 7:58:43 PM

Dear Men,

If you are going to criticize a woman's figure or any other aspect of her appearance, please make 100% sure that you're either Brad Pitt or Johnny Depp! (a joke obviously) I do not care what you look like, its what is in the heart and mind that counts. Just makes you look like a fool when you try to belittle someone.

1/22/2014 7:28:24 PM

Subs always have a choice! Just because you are Dom, does not mean we will have that special connection and if i choose not to continue the conversation....its my choice and does not mean this site is not meant for me. Be gracious about it, not try to tear the woman down.