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submissivessy757
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Thick4You
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Looking for a poly addition to my household. Female preferred, must like cuddles and rough sex, breath play and like to be silly.
K I shouldn't have to put a note in here like this, but apparently there is a need for it.
I am a switch. I am not a submissive who has just not found the right master, I'm not a Dom trying to explore a "softer" side. I am a switch, I enjoy both aspects of the lifestyle. I will take a dominant role, I will take a submissive role. But DO NOT ASSUME that because I state that I can be submissive that that is all I am. So approaching me and calling me "girl" or "little one" is a quick way to get an e-mail deleted. FYI.
Secondly, I am in a committed relationship, we are still exploring all the ways and means of being a kinkster couple. We are interested in a bi sub/slave/switch (Male or female) with a possible Poly relationship.
That being said, on with the regular programing.
BBW looking for..... Yes please.
I'm pansexual, not bi, but CS does not have that option. I don't care if your male, female, TG whatever, if i like you and am attracted to you, then I am.
Looking for someone local. Or some local people. But I don't mind chatting with anyone.
Please don't send a one line message. Spelling and grammar are important too, and if your profile is not complete (to include a picture, which can be sent with the e-mail) I will also most likely not reply
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I'm torn at this point. I crave a relationship and I'm looking in multiple places.
I've contacted several people both lifestyle and vanilla with mixed results, but I'm wondering really where I should be looking.
I've been in the lifestyle for over 10 years now, I have no contact with the local groups due to their exclusiveness (You have to know someone to get in as I see it and I know no one). And to be honest have little paitence for the politics and bull that happens in groups anyway.
I mean we are supposed to be reveling in the human form and condition, giving the gift of submission and dominance, and sharing our experiences with others so that they may learn. Not argue over who should be running things or half the stupid shit I've seen happen with a group.
So that avenue is fairly closed to me. But should I continue to peruse a vanilla relationship and ignore my kink side? I've done that for so long at this point that it may be the answer, but I still crave the interaction and intimacy of a kink relationship, it's SO much deeper than a vanilla lifestyle.
But just like the vanilla side, I've spent hours writing well thought out e-mails and received few replies.
I've also spent a good amount of time on every profile I have and it REALLY frustrates me that the profiles that appear to get the responses are the three line profiles.
It's frustrating to do this thing, and I can only hope that I find my relationship soon.
Best of luck to all you searchers, god knows we need it.
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Ok. Said it once. I'll say it again. And I'll probally have to say it 1000 times again.
1) I am a switch, not a sub, not a slave. I have aspects of both the dom and the sub and I don't turn it on and off like a light.
2) You send me one line, call me girl (Or anything similar) or treat me with less than the respect due another human being and I will delete you message and NOT thing twice about it.
3) FILL OUT YOUR FLIPPING PROFILE ALREADY. Your message will be deleted if you do not have a complete profile. (This INCLUDES pictures and the interests)
4) If at any point in our communications I find out that you are lying? Do not expect to hear from me again.... EVER.
Don't like it? Sorry not my problem, So hate mail too will be deleted.
I'm on here to find people and make friends, I don't have time to be jerked about and played with.
Ta!
~Shabanna
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I realize that I'm about to not make friends here but while browisng this morning I ran across a profile that asked the question:
A question I ask myself
when interacting with one who has appointed himself or herself the title
dominant.
When measured against the challenge driven, ethical, highly successful, in
control man or woman, how is this dominant the same or different?
I was inspired to answer:
Most people (men and
women) who label then selves as "Dom" don't understand the depth and
breadth of what those three letters mean.
They don't understand what it is to hold and caress a sub
who went a little to far and pushed their limits. To love on them and hold them till they can
trust themselves to stand again.
They have no clue what it means to look at a submissive and
know that the look they are giving you means that they dare not deny you what
you are asking because they know to do
so would displease you. But that they
truly do not want to do what you are asking. And at that revelation being able to gracefully withdraw your request
and find something more amenable to do.
These people are in it for what they consider easy kinky
sex. Not realizing that there are Ds
relationships out there that have been active for 10 - 20 years and there has
never been any kind of oral, anal, or vaginal sex.
They think that being a Dom makes them powerful. They never think of the responsibility that
it entails. It's more responsibility
than being a parent. You are taking the
life of another adult human into you hands and possibly putting them in a position
where if something goes horribly horribly wrong you are the one who will be responsible for making sure
that no harm comes to them and if some sort of harm does come to them, you have
to owe up and take the burden on your shoulders.
People who feel that they have to label themselves generally
don't have the first clue what it means to accept that label.
The label of Dom isn't something that's put on like a new
shirt, it's something that's borne like a scar. It's earned, not purchased with a shiny leather whip.
Bring on the hate mail. But also share your thoughts on the matter.
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Please explain to me how hard it is to type up a couple of lines for a profile?
Take 5 minutes to fill out a check list?
If you are e-mailing people and NOT getting a response, take a look at your profile.
Subs: If your profile is not filled out it indicates a disinterest in actually being submissive.
Doms: if your profile is not filled out it indicates that you are unwilling to take the time to do what should be done.
Either way, this is NOT The way to do this people, come on and wake up about this.
It's kinda like making a first impression at a fancy dress ball while wearing tattered stained jeans and a t shirt with a provocative saying on it. You stick out yea, but NOT in a good way.
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