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I am going to tell you now, I am far from perfect. I will however never tell you a lie, or lead you on and I expect the same. I believe the most important thing in a relationship is honesty, communication, and the ability to actively listen to your partner - or partners. I love music, MMORPG's, Role Playing Games, the outdoors, computers, motorcycling, motors, anything that moves, web design, graphic design, reading, intelligent conversation and just about everything else. Most of all I am just a geek. I am here for networking, getting to know people, and meeting new people in the local bdsm scene as well as the Goth/industrial scene. I don't play games and I expect you not to also, if you are looking for a game go find a checker board - or chess works to. Last but not least I am looking for play-partners, friends, and even LTR, really whatever comes I'm open to. This is not about "sex" to me, it's about something much more profound. The emotional and mental connection that helps people grow together. The psychological aspect to me is the best part of it, and of course the play strikes pretty high on the list also. I know what I want, I know who I am, and most of all, I now understand the difference of what I believed a slave was to what a sub was, even though it is a very controversial issue that I would be glad to debate sometime. My list of fetishes is not completely updated I am open to a lot of things that are not on it. I have a few hard limits that I will not move on, and others that are soft limits with the right person. Hard Limits: No Scat, beastiality, necrophilia, permanent maiming or injury, or long term confinement (such as closets, or cages), anything illegal. None of these are negotiable. Soft limits: Blood play, Water sports, needles, unprotected sex or things that can cause me to break hard limits or personal beliefs. (Std sharing included.) I completely support Rack, and SSC play. I am a member of a few of the So Cal groups and enjoy volunteering with them as much as I can to be involved and help where needed. If you have issues with isolating or are not sure enough of yourself to actually allow that, then friends is about all you'll get. -D

12/11/2009 2:16:26 AM Please if you are just looking to fuck, don't message me. Read my profile and bring up something in it or most likely I won't respond unless we have been talking already for sometime. Respectfully Yours, D

11/30/2009 4:00:25 AM He came, he seen, he wanted he took. He left me confused, wanting, and needing something so much more. He held me, he stole me, he angered me, and yet it continued to evolve. He touched me in places I never knew I had. He made things surface that I never knew I believed in. He frustrated me, he talked to me, and he led me. He made me smile, he made me think, and he made me believe. He met my eyes and I met his. He brushed my cheek, and I reached for him. He told me he believed in me, and made me see so much. Then it left, all of it, and so did a piece of me I never thought I'd find again. Do I let it go, and move on? Do I try to grab it while it walks on? Do I try and remember the things he taught me that I did not know? Or do I turn and walk, like I have done so many times before.