I am a 50 year old white male. I became interested in the lifestyle after some bad experiences a few years ago with a woman who was a bit......extreme, shall we say. I'm primarily on here looking to meet new friends who are involved, as well as hoping to contact some old ones that I've lost touch with. Of course, play is always an option, but looking for friends, first.


I am a retired Chemical Engineer and Banker. I am a Lay Pastor, and work very actively with several community and church groups, so discretion is a must. Formerly, I was a professional trumpet player to pay my way through college. I am an active medieval re-enactor and proficient swordsman, with a secondary skill with the halberd. I also am a skilled cook, having been trained by a former State Dept. chef. Much of my time revolves about singing. I am a baritone with several groups, including a community chorale, and a gospel quartet.