I really need to update my profile but I'm just too lazy right now to do that so here's some new info on what I'm currently looking for:

1. I'm looking for a real relationship with a real person. Which means the online thing won't work unless you live in my country, state and county. I have a lot of people from places like the Netherlands and Virginia and Sacramento contacting me but there's no way we'll ever meet and I cannot do the online thing forever. I'm a person that likes physical contact. I don't want to just type about fucking you with a strap on, I actually want to do it. I've done it before and the power I feel from ramming a huge cock in a guy's ass is just to addicting to give up. So I won't.
2. I'm looking to date and get to know you. To me, it's not just about getting off. There has to be some level of trust and intimacy (the emotional kind) before anything physical jumps off. Believe me, I want to get you naked and kneeling at my feet, too but it can't be rushed. I don't know about the rest of you on here but to me if there's no trust/affection involved in any encounters we may have then there's no meaning. You disagree? Next profile, please!!! 
3. I've learned that while I may enjoy bdsm activities I'm not necessarily gung-ho for the lifestyle. Let me explain. While it's fun dominating a man and I do tend to have a strong personality, I wouldn't consider myself a domme. At least not by modern media standards. A lot of men on here, especially the really young ones have preconceived notions of what a domme should be. A lot of this stems from all the porn that these horny boys watch on a daily basis. Listen, I'm a regular woman. I don't go to work and talk down at or shout at people who (I know) are less than I am. I operate by social norms in order to get ahead in the world, et cetera. But behind closed doors I enjoy face-sitting and pegging a guy and ordering him to suck my strap on. Does this make me a domme? Perhaps. Is a guy that enjoys these activities a sub? Not necessarily. Maybe he's just a guy that likes to orally worship his lady and take it up the ass from time to time. Afterwards, he returns the favor, leaving us both satisfied. At this point in my life, this is the kind of man I want. It feels strange to be so specific in my wants but I see men on here all the time looking for women to dominate or be dominated by. This is because it's hard to build a so-called "vanilla" relationship and then a few months later ask the girl to let you gag her with your/be gagged by her dick. This is the same reason why I'm here. It's too hard to find a guy, build a relationship with him and then tell him that I want to try pissing in his mouth.
4. Please be in my age group. The highest I can go on the age is ten years from my own. I've been with older men as I like their maturity, however, I have to set age limits. I just can't see a future with someone 10+ years older than I am. I've tried it before and it just didn't work out. To the older men reading this, don't be fooled by my age. I may be young and light-hearted, maybe even refreshingly naive in some ways. However, I am by no means a fool. If I suspect that you are less than genuine I will 86 your ass without a second thought. Same goes for the young bucks out there. Life is just too short so fuck the bullshit, m'kay?
5. If you agree with or are intrigued by what I've said then please feel free to message me with something other than "hello." Also, leave any notions of what you think I am or should be at the door and I will do the same. We are people first and labels (Dom/sub) second, that is, if we even choose to label ourselves as such. Our "vanilla" interests are just as important as our kinky ones. That being said, I'd like to have something in common besides kink to keep us interested in one another. For example, I'm very interested in health and fitness and hope you are, too. Speaking of that, as shallow as it sounds there needs to be some level of physical attraction on both our parts to get the wheels turning. I don't mind if you are fat or hairy or dress bad because God knows i'm no supermodel. However, what are you doing about it? I'm overweight (duh) but I by no means intend on staying that way. If you are a work in progress as I am then you have my respect and attention. I think a lot of us shy away from contacting people on here because of the super sexy intimidating pictures. Don't assume you know what people are or aren't attracted to based on how they look or don't look. I for one have very strange taste: I once had a thing for a tall skinny Asian guy with grayish teeth. Even now I wonder what the hell I was thinking but his personality shined like no other and that's what hooked me. lol You never know what you're going to like until after you like it. 

Thanks for reading and have a good day.

This is a new year and along with it there's new possibilities and apparently a new me? Everyone I know seems to think that I've changed somehow in looks and demeanor. People say I look better, that I'm more open, etc. Even the lady who arched my eyebrows today said I'm different than I was when i saw her a month ago. It's so strange. Maybe it's because this is my year (the year of the Horse, apparently).

I'll be 24 this year. A-fuckin-mazing. I started working full time for the first time ever, took a break from school and have been socializing with my co-workers. I never socialize. With my birthday looming around the corner I've begun to reevaluate my life. 

I've considered my wants, my needs and my dreams and have come to an understanding that I'm no where close to them. I don't have a car or even know how to drive and because of constant moving from place to place haven't saved money but it's time to change that. 

It's also time to enter some sort of relationship. I've held off on being with anyone because the guys in my area are uninteresting and not worth my time. Call me stuck up but I deserve more than the two-bit drug dealing losers that stride up and down the streets like they have something to be proud of. Puh-lease.

I'm back again. And this time i plan to stay. I have to say, it's been a while since I've been on here. I feel like a newbie again. 

Looking forward to connecting with you all again. :)

I'm not so active anymore because of a lot of family drama and financial troubles that I am dealing with. All of that nonsense sucks up a lo of my time and energy. 

I've decided that I'll be moving out on my own in February. I'm very interested in the idea of finding a roommate on here. It'd be cool if I could invite subs over and I'd be down to watch you play with your subs (or your domme?)

It doesn't matter to me if you're a sub or a domme or just interested in the lifestyle. As long as you live in the Los Angeles area (preferably near LAX or the South Bay) and can take a roommate (shared room or separate room). I can pay up to 600. 

If anyone is interested, message me. I'd like to get to know you a bit if I'm going to live with you. 

Thanks for reading. 

This is for anyone that may be interested in knowing:

I'm going in for surgery tomorrow. It's not a big deal, I'm just getting my wisdom teeth removed (finally). I'm a little scared, though, because they'll be putting me to sleep and there is always a chance of complications during a procedure like this. Im not allowed to eat or drink after midnight tonight or else I'll be putting myself at risk. 

So...if you guys don't hear from me for a couple of days it's because I'm recovering from having my teeth pulled out of my face or, God forbid, something else. 

Wish me luck.

-Sage

Well, it's time to face the music. Okay, so it seems that I may be moving out sooner than I had anticipated. My older sister is ready to move out into her own place and without her income the rest of us can't afford to live in this overpriced dump anymore. She really picked the worst time since I just started my new job and haven't saved any money. :(

She wants to be in her own place by June so me and the rest of the family are scrambling to figure out what to do before then. I'm seriously contemplating wether or not this is an opportunity to also break away from my family and get into my own place. But right now, I just can't afford to do it on my own.

So, here goes...

Is there anyone in the South Bay area that could use a roommate or doesn't mind having a new one? I'm a pretty chill chick and keep a low profile (no crazy parties or boyfriends coming by at all hours of the night). I'm looking for something in the South Bay area only cuz I don't have a car and need to be within the area I live in right now in order to get to work on time. So unless you're willing to drive me to and from work (if you live out of my preferred area) then there's no way it could work. 

I know this is a long shot and I'm probably going to get a lot of bs replies but I'm asking for people to be serious when replying. I don't care about your race, age, sexual orientation, religious preference, educational background, disability, whatever, as long as you're not crazy I'm sure we'd get along. Only thing is I'd like to live with a non-smoker. Kids, pets, and/or other roommates are fine by me. 

I've got my own furniture, by the way, that I'd have to take with me. I'd appreciate earnest replies only. 

Thanks. 

So, apparently some guys on here are fucking crazy, passive aggressive bastards.

This guy conner44 said some rude shit to me because I did reply to him fast enough. He claims to be submissive but I'm sure he's a woman hater. Here's what he had to say:

I was going to message him back and ask if he had a bad day or something but like a pussy, he blocked me. So mature. Seriously, shit like this makes me ashamed that I breath the same air as slim like this. lol He says I can't read but he can't even spell. XD

Edit: As per another users advice, I took down the number and email of this so-called submissive male. I'm not getting my account closed over his bullshit. 

Hey, everyone. It seems that guys are still contacting me even though I asked to only speak with domme females. I guess this is to be expected. I'm beginning to see that there is a benefit to having a sub male as a friend on here. However, if you're a sub/slave male and you're going to message me here are some rules to follow:

• Have more the one sentence in your message 
• Have some info about yourself in your profile before contacting me or don't contact me at all
• Don't ask me to fuck you with a strap on (I don't have one right now, anyway)
• Understand that I'm not looking for a play partner/fwb/boyfriend/boytoy right now. I'm very busy and have little time for even an fwb
• Understand that I'm looking for friend's only

That's all for now. Please show that you respect me by reading the simple instructions I have written above. 

Hey, everyone. I'm new here. If there are any girls in the Los Angeles area who would like to chat, hit me up. Sorry guys. I'm not looking for a sub/slave or anything like that right now. I'm only interested in friendships with other like-minded females. Thanks.