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SensualityInBDSM

I moved back to the KC area about 2 months ago to be with family after being gone for several years. I’m finally getting settled and ready to begin my search for someone very special. I have a little over 10 years experience, and I’d love to find a special someone who realizes that this is mostly mental. Once a submissive realizes her submission mentally, then the physical parts can become explosive for her, but she has to first allow her mind and heart to realize her submission. Maybe I’m old fashioned but I believe you can easily combine sensual, romantic, and wildly erotic into a bdsm relationship. Training a submissive and finding her strengths and weaknesses, her soft and hard limitations, what she franticly craves and desperately yearns versus what she tentatively fears … all of these to delve into her mind so that every physical sensation in her body is enhanced to the point of not being sure whether it is ecstasy or agony she craves. Me? I can be comfortable in an expensive business suit at a charity event or in a pair of shorts on the beach. In terms of “vital statistics”, I’m 60 years old, 6 ft 1 in tall, 180 lbs and slim build, physically (and mentally) fit, and have a fun combination of positive attitude and sense of humor. You? Your physical deion, height, age, weight, etc. are not important. I much prefer to spend time with people who are positive, can talk about a variety of things, have an imagination, value romance and sensuality, and can allow themselves to trust someone. You should be able to dress up in a sexy dress and enjoy the glances of men as you sit in an elegant restaurant ... and you should be able to be stripped naked and become a slut living out fantasies you've only allowed your mind to think of as you lay in bed in the dark at night. There’s so much more we can talk about, but I’d rather write something specific to someone of interest versus writing a novel for general consumption. Feel free to drop me a note if this is interesting. Conner
5/6/2017 11:12:30 AM
I probably should have put this in my profile ... if you are in a foreign country or anywhere more than a few hours from Kansas City, please don't waste your time or mine by writing.  I believe in being a gentleman but I won't reply to anyone who obviously has no potential of meeting.  Oh, and asking for money only makes me chuckle ... I'm looking for a real person and not a scammer sitting at a computer in Nigeria (lol).
sammynapsub
 
 Age: 22
  Wisconsin