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I am 37 , Lesbian, Domme, Dallas area, seeking REAL, FEMALE submissive for long term relationship.
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True submission is about *service*, not about getting your selfish delights and trying to fake interest in the rest.
Submission is about really caring about the needs of the Dominant, as you would a good friend, or a family member, and wanting to always please them, make them happy.
yes, your needs get met in the process. But that happens when you *earn* it, through dedication and genuine heart and spirit.
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About Me:
My beliefs in Life, BDSM, D/s, and the Lifestyle - can all be summed up in a few words: Character, Honor, Integrity, Respect. If you don't have this, I won't be around long.
I realize the world is not perfect, nor are the human beings in it. However, how we act, how we treat others, what we say, what we do, reflects who we really are. I have made choices in My life, to seek out, and enjoy the company of, those others in the world who are of strong character, are honorable, have great integrity, and a genuine caring respect for the world around them and the people in it.
I also believe that I am not in the Lifestyle, but rather, that the Lifestyle is in Me....
I adore the BDSM Lifestyle, and all its wondrous gifts and the potential for building strong loving relationships, deeply caring and genuinely committed relationships, that far surpass any I could experience outside the Lifestyle.
I believe that the sharing of BDSM (D/s) is a journey of self exploration and
discovery, and a great opportunity for personal improvement, and growth,
intellectually, as well as interpersonally. And a means to really get to know very special others in our lives.
I believe that D/s is a 2-way street - that Dominant, and submissive, are in a way, equal, yet different... on parallel journeys that intertwine on so many incredible levels. As a submissive, I learned what it is, to really serve with one's whole heart mind body and spirit.
I wish everyone learned this way!
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Ok, after a recent horrible experience, I'm going to add , I'm not accepting smokers at all! Had a visitor recently who smoked heavily and that just doesn't mix with having asthma. Visitor smoked outside and that still wasn't enough to prevent a cloud of smoke odor from lingering for hours afterwards, and days later, on my furniture. And I spent several nights sitting up coughing my head off, and got severe headaches from it. And that isn't cool. No hate messages from smokers please. My philosophy on smoking is, sure, yes, those are your lungs you are killing with smoking (tar nicotine etc), and you have the right to do so. However, (smokers) do not have the right to kill mine, because I have the right to have cleaner air around me. And, I have asthma, and its very sensitive to smoke, more so than ever now. So nothing personal, just can't do it, my lungs can't deal with it. Plus, why not actively care about your health and mine, as part of a deep caring long lasting relationship. Lets be healthy and fit and together for a very long time!
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And this weeks experience, we see a Dumme (probably a male for real) using many different nicks, trying to fake their way in - LOL how dumme and desperate. How little class and zero integrity.
Oh well I'm sure there's some ignorant fools who will let the user use them up and spit them out . Oh well.
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I really do not like anyone who *uses* someone else , esp for money. There is no such thing as a money *Domme*... more like a money Dumme. Dommes don't USE people like that.
What a farked up world.
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My experiences have been incredible and wonderful, breathtaking and simultaneously heart-wrenching. I have shared immense joys, incredible thrills, and enormous disappointments, as well as heartbreak. These are all a part of life's journey, and I have learned at great personal cost, just how precious and fleeting life truly is.
I started My journey when I was age 18, with a loving Domme on the East Coast, who over time, introduced Me to the Lifestyle and its many wonders and joys, and not long after O/our first meeting, went from a very naive young person, to living fulltime and learning and training, working towards earning My very first collar - "submissive-trainee-under-consideration".
Months later I earned that training collar, and months after that, My "full submissive" collar, and the right to finally address Her as "Mistress"! What a journey that was! Full of ups and downs and goods and bads, but I made it and the joy I felt was immeasurable!!
She saw more potential in Me than I saw in Myself, and not long after, during one of O/our evening before-bed conversations, She confided that She saw great potential in Me, the potential to become a "full slave" -- I was stunned, and could not see Myself as a "slave!?!" But even while it sounded impossible, and unlikely, inside Me, in My heart, it sounded so very right -- and I believed in Her words, that I was not yet complete, that I had more hunger, more yearning inside of Me than I could understand.
So She gently, lovingly, urged Me to push Myself to find out. To go beyond what I had accomplished so far, and strive to do more, explore Myself more deeply than I believed I had the courage to do -- My gawds, what if She was right?!?
With Her knowing and caring Guidance, I continued My journey, striving to push Myself and learn more about what was inside of Me, and slowly, gradually, learning how to feel safe in letting it show, around Her, and around O/others. I ultimately did earn a "full slave collar" and She saw still more inside of Me, and as much as I adored Her, I could not say "No" to Her, and so further I went, deeper, with eagerness and a trust in Her, that I would never have dreamed possible. I went on to become Her "pleasure slave" and what a world of experiences that was!!
Unfortunately, that relationship ended after just over 5 incredible years, and I experienced a heartache beyond measure. It took a while to get over the loss, but I moved on, with the help of some caring Others, who also saw promise in Me and showed Me the glories of the awesome power of Dominance, as well as the immense responsibilities, which I learned over the following 2 years, and learned a new respect for My most wonderful First Mistress and a deeper respect and love of the Life.
Domination in the D/s sense, is not about manipulation of the weak, or oppression by fear - but rather a sense of loving giving and genuine caring for the well-being of others in our lives. It carries enourmous responsibilities with it that must be treated with the utmost care and respect, and taken most seriously.
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