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The most important thing is the relationship. Contrary to what some might think, it's not about "Me" - it's about "us".

Yes - D/s - and I'm "D". That says a lot but there's so much more. Who I am and what I'm looking for can only be hinted at here.

Me: sensual, intelligent, adventurous & creative. Healthy, affectionate, reliable, gregarious (and did I mention "entirely sane"?)

you: smart, attractive, good self-esteem, sensual, adventurous, etc., etc.

Looking for: a friend, lover & co-adventurer. My ideal woman might be short on experience and long on desire. I love to teach (lead, train) and I'm very good at that. Since I'm also intuitive, I'll know (usually) just how far and how deep to take you. It's a journey and we press on together.

Not looking for: 24/7 or anything "too extreme" (subjective, of course.)

Misc: Toys are fine, but we don't need a lot of accesories, fancy outfits or specially equipped rooms(!) Less is more. Besides, it's all in your mind - or at least it's there before it's manifest through the flesh.

If any of this sounds too serious, rest assured I have a sense of humor as well as a sense of perspective.
playfulsinatouse
 
 Age: 31
 Cape Town, South Africa